We have some friends (a couple) that pop over when ever they want without calling first. Last Sunday they showed up at 11 am and stayed until 10pm. I told them that I had to shower and then go to the laundrymat. It didn't bother them. "Jane" said "oh, I thought that you do laundry on Saturday." I explained that I had to work Saturday and had no other time to do it besides Sunday. They hung out with my husband and were still there when I got back home. Of course we fed them dinner.
They came by during the week after work.
They are here now. I had to work again yesterday, but not as long as last Saturday, so I managed to get laundry done yesterday. I just got back from my weekly grocery shopping and they were in our driveway talking to my husband.
I have a cold! I don't want company! I was planning on sitting outside with my DH to get some fresh air and relax. Now I'm just going to stay in. I just can't handle entertaining right now. I told "Jane" I'm sick and her response was "that was quick." Like... last time we saw you you were fine.
My DH helped me carry groceries up and said he would give them a couple of beers and keep them outside. He doesn't have the heart to ask them to leave. "Jack" was the best man in our wedding.
If anyone asked me what I would do in a situation like this I would tell them to say they just aren't up to company right now, but I can't do it. If they were originally my friends (rather than originally my husband's), I would, but I don't want to make my husband feel uncomfortable. He wasn't happy about it either, but he's nicer than me.
They will probably show up tomorrow too because it's Labor Day.
I don't know why people think this is okay!
Thanks for letting me vent.
They came by during the week after work.
They are here now. I had to work again yesterday, but not as long as last Saturday, so I managed to get laundry done yesterday. I just got back from my weekly grocery shopping and they were in our driveway talking to my husband.
I have a cold! I don't want company! I was planning on sitting outside with my DH to get some fresh air and relax. Now I'm just going to stay in. I just can't handle entertaining right now. I told "Jane" I'm sick and her response was "that was quick." Like... last time we saw you you were fine.
My DH helped me carry groceries up and said he would give them a couple of beers and keep them outside. He doesn't have the heart to ask them to leave. "Jack" was the best man in our wedding.
If anyone asked me what I would do in a situation like this I would tell them to say they just aren't up to company right now, but I can't do it. If they were originally my friends (rather than originally my husband's), I would, but I don't want to make my husband feel uncomfortable. He wasn't happy about it either, but he's nicer than me.
They will probably show up tomorrow too because it's Labor Day.
I don't know why people think this is okay!
Thanks for letting me vent.