Well, my son's 6 months old, and his biological father has only seen him twice, doesn't call to see how he's doing, and didn't even send him a x-mass gift. He told me before Angelus was born that he was going to go to court for full custody. Now, not to be mean, but this guy is completely irrisponsible and unable to care for a child of any age. When the baby was only a few months old, he shoved an aggressive Jack russell terrier in his face because he wanted the dog to give the baby a kiss. Not to mention that he has a very bad temper and is violent.
Just the other day, he told me that he was thinking about signing away his parental rights. I think its a great idea because I'm worried for the well-being of Angelus, but I don't want him to grow up not knowing his father as well. My fiancÃ[emoji]169[/emoji] has been with me since I was 5 months pregnant and absolutely LOVES Angelus. He wan't to adopt the baby if he can.
I know that the only reason this guy is thinking about signing away his parental rights is because he doesn't want to have to pay child support. I feel that he should be responsible for what he did and have to pay, instead of just forgetting about it and acting like it never happened, but I would like my fiancÃ[emoji]169[/emoji] to adopt him because so far he's the closest thing to a father this child has ever had, and probably will ever have.
Now, I'm not going to let him sign away his parental rights until I'm married so that Jason can adopt him if I'm going to let him do it at all. I just want everyone's opinions on what I should do. I want the child to know his father, but I also don't want to put him in any risk.
Just the other day, he told me that he was thinking about signing away his parental rights. I think its a great idea because I'm worried for the well-being of Angelus, but I don't want him to grow up not knowing his father as well. My fiancÃ[emoji]169[/emoji] has been with me since I was 5 months pregnant and absolutely LOVES Angelus. He wan't to adopt the baby if he can.
I know that the only reason this guy is thinking about signing away his parental rights is because he doesn't want to have to pay child support. I feel that he should be responsible for what he did and have to pay, instead of just forgetting about it and acting like it never happened, but I would like my fiancÃ[emoji]169[/emoji] to adopt him because so far he's the closest thing to a father this child has ever had, and probably will ever have.
Now, I'm not going to let him sign away his parental rights until I'm married so that Jason can adopt him if I'm going to let him do it at all. I just want everyone's opinions on what I should do. I want the child to know his father, but I also don't want to put him in any risk.