My daughter-in-law, Sam, called this morning. Mark has run out, on her and nobody knows why.
The first hint, that I had, was Christmas Day. Sam called, to ask if I had seen or heard from Mark. He hasn't been home, since Dec. 20. He showed up, here, that evening and told me that they were going to work it out. I talked to him, New Year's Day and he said that things were OK.
Sam says that there's some stuff, that she's leaving for him to tell me. I asked if he was on drugs, again and she said, "HE needs to talk to to you about that." I'm taking that as a "yes".
They've been evicted, from their rental and she's moved back to her parents' so, she'll be safe.
He's been doing, so well, for the past three years: working, clean and sober. I don't know if the prospect of being the father of twins is overwhelming him or, if he's just being a butthead. His father walked out, a week before Mark was born and I don't want to see history repeating itself.
Whatever happens, Sam has my support. She doesn't deserve this. She has another ultrasound scheduled, in two weeks and we should find out the sex of the second twin. She asked me to be there. I'm glad that she isn't blaming me, for Mark's misbehavior.
I'm worried about Mark. I don't want to see him messed up or dead. He's hanging out with his old druggie friends. I'm torn between telling him off and slapping him up along side of the head. He KNOWS what its like, growing up without a father. You'd think that he wouldn't want to do that, to his own kids.
Just when you think they're OK, these darned kids get themselves messed up, again. I just had to get this out.
The first hint, that I had, was Christmas Day. Sam called, to ask if I had seen or heard from Mark. He hasn't been home, since Dec. 20. He showed up, here, that evening and told me that they were going to work it out. I talked to him, New Year's Day and he said that things were OK.
Sam says that there's some stuff, that she's leaving for him to tell me. I asked if he was on drugs, again and she said, "HE needs to talk to to you about that." I'm taking that as a "yes".
They've been evicted, from their rental and she's moved back to her parents' so, she'll be safe.
He's been doing, so well, for the past three years: working, clean and sober. I don't know if the prospect of being the father of twins is overwhelming him or, if he's just being a butthead. His father walked out, a week before Mark was born and I don't want to see history repeating itself.
Whatever happens, Sam has my support. She doesn't deserve this. She has another ultrasound scheduled, in two weeks and we should find out the sex of the second twin. She asked me to be there. I'm glad that she isn't blaming me, for Mark's misbehavior.
I'm worried about Mark. I don't want to see him messed up or dead. He's hanging out with his old druggie friends. I'm torn between telling him off and slapping him up along side of the head. He KNOWS what its like, growing up without a father. You'd think that he wouldn't want to do that, to his own kids.
Just when you think they're OK, these darned kids get themselves messed up, again. I just had to get this out.