I just have to blow off some steam and make sure I'm not totally over reacting.
There are 4 bridesmaids, and we've been emailing everyone to set up the bachelorette party....well, one person doesn't respond to her emails OR answer her phone. So the three of us got a date and theme all planned and TODAY I find out everything has changed because the girl who never got back to anyone (maid of honor and sister to bride) planned everything without any input from the bridesmaids. We were planning on having a next Thursday party and I found out this evening (through the grapevine) that the party has been changed to Saturday (I had plans, now I have to cancel) and the party has already been planned.
Do the bridesmaids normally get to help plan the bride's bachelorette party? Am I just being an old maid? I know that I have to go and I have to smile and pretend everything is hunky dory because I don't want to upset the bride, but sheesh.
I don't even fit in to this bridal party. I'm the oldest, I have no real connection to this bride except that her husband to be is my husbands brother. the MOH is hiring a stripper and plans to go out drinking, I really don't want to do this.
oh yeah, and everyone knew about this on Monday except me. no one called me....actually i found that she called my cell but did not leave a message. I didn't know it was her calling because i had never seen that number before.......
There are 4 bridesmaids, and we've been emailing everyone to set up the bachelorette party....well, one person doesn't respond to her emails OR answer her phone. So the three of us got a date and theme all planned and TODAY I find out everything has changed because the girl who never got back to anyone (maid of honor and sister to bride) planned everything without any input from the bridesmaids. We were planning on having a next Thursday party and I found out this evening (through the grapevine) that the party has been changed to Saturday (I had plans, now I have to cancel) and the party has already been planned.
Do the bridesmaids normally get to help plan the bride's bachelorette party? Am I just being an old maid? I know that I have to go and I have to smile and pretend everything is hunky dory because I don't want to upset the bride, but sheesh.
I don't even fit in to this bridal party. I'm the oldest, I have no real connection to this bride except that her husband to be is my husbands brother. the MOH is hiring a stripper and plans to go out drinking, I really don't want to do this.
oh yeah, and everyone knew about this on Monday except me. no one called me....actually i found that she called my cell but did not leave a message. I didn't know it was her calling because i had never seen that number before.......