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post #1 of 70
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Please, please, please keep my hubby in your prayers. Sorry - I am crying as I type this!

He is 42 years old and he hasn't been feeling well lately. We thought it was just the stress of his mother dying in the hospital for 2 months, her actual dying and the aftermath of dealing with his father. He was also having a problem with his shoulder (he fell when his mom was in the hospital and did't "have time" to have it checked out. He also works a very mentally and physically demanding job

Well 2 weeks ago I convinced him to go to the doctor (he did not want to go). The Dr gave him a week of stress leave and sent for a series of tests. Tests came back and he got sent for more tests. Last night he went to get the results. The dr actually asked him if he had a heartattack!

His ECG came back so bad it looks like he had a heartattack. Dr is sending him to nuclear medicine to get his heart checked, but is so concerned that he won't let him do the tread mill - it will be a chemically induced test. There is also a concern of cancer - it runs in his family. Dr gave him some pills to help him deal with his anxiety and exhausted state and wanted him off work. Hubby says he can't go off work now, too busy. He promised me that if he did work, he won't pound any sledghammers or do anything too physical, but his job is so stress full, I don't want him to have a real heart attack! If work doesn't let up for him by Tuesday (he has another dr appointment them) he says he will get the doctor to give him a note for light duty.

Please pray that there is nothing seriously wrong with his heart and that he doesn't have cancer. He just has to get strong. My boys are only 2 and 1 and just lost their grandmother - they need their daddy! He is a great daddy.
post #2 of 70
Here are all the vibes I can muster in thanks for the vibes you sent for Aristotle's safe return.
post #3 of 70
Ady I am sending MEGA vibes for your hubby. Keep us posted please!
post #4 of 70
I'm sending lots of prayers and vibes for your hubby Ady!!

I hope it's nothing too serious perhaps this is just a sign to him that he needs to slow down.
post #5 of 70
I will keep him and your family in my prayers.
post #6 of 70
Sending many prayers for your husband, you and your little guys.
post #7 of 70
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
post #8 of 70
Thread Starter 
Thanks everyone! Your support means a lot to me! I am trying to keep myself from calling him at work to check on him! I know he will call me at lunch!
post #9 of 70
I'm sending you and your family lots of vibes adymarie. I hope your hubby gets the all clear.
post #10 of 70
Oh many vibes and prayers for your husband Bless all of you
post #11 of 70

Many, MANY vibes for your DH to be ok, and for YOU to be ok as well!!!

I'm here if you need me!!!
post #12 of 70
Your husband and family is in my thoughts and prayers.
post #13 of 70
Sending many vibes to you. About a yr ago my dad had some tests and the doc also asked if he had had a heart attack in the past as the ECG indicted unusual results.
Hoping for better results for him from this current round of tests.....
post #14 of 70
I am sorry to hear about your husband. Sending many vibes for you and your husband!
post #15 of 70
Thread Starter 
Thanks everyone - hubby just called me. Dr has set up the nuclear medicince test for Tuesday morning - it will take about 4-6 hours to do. I told him I am taking the day off work and going with him - he objected, but there is no way I am letting him do this on his own!

I will tell him about all of the vibes that are winging their way across the world to him!
post #16 of 70
Many vibes and prayers for your husband and family.
post #17 of 70
He's certainly had a stressful time of things poor thing

Sending hub (((((((((mega healthy vibes))))))))) from across the pond and to you
post #18 of 70
Many, many vibes on their way, Ady. }}}}}}}}}}}}}{{{{{{{{{{{{{ What a scary time! for the next test results, and to you and your family.
post #19 of 70
oh gosh, Ady, I'm so sorry to hear about your husband's poor health many vibes that the doctors can get this all sorted out {{{}}}}
post #20 of 70
I can't imagine how scary this all is for you guys!

You and your husband are in my thoughts and prayers!!
post #21 of 70
I hope everything goes well for your husband, I'm so sorry about his health, hope he gets better and it's not anything serious.
Many prayers to you and your family.
post #22 of 70
Hugs and prayers heading your way!
post #23 of 70
After everything the two of you have gone through during the last several months, I'm am so sorry this is now happening. As I'm learning (due to friend's terminal illness), there isn't really anything you can do for the person who has the health issues other than be very supportive of them. Stay strong and hopeful for DH, and know that by undergoing tests, he's doing everything he can to find out what's happening. Sending you all the good thoughts and prayers I can....and hoping everything works out well.
post #24 of 70
You must be out of your mind with worry - especially with two possible things to be concerned about. All the very best of vibes for you both for the tests, stay strong for each other and the kids.
post #25 of 70
Ady, I'm so sorry to hear this distressing news. My thoughts and prayers to you and your hubby. We're all here for you if you need a sounding board.
post #26 of 70
Sending hugs and prayers from Mississippi for you, and your husband, and your kids.

Please keep us posted on how he is doing.
post #27 of 70
Oh sweetie, I'm so sorry!!! I know how stressful it is to be going through that uncertainly, especially when it's your heart as well!!

Definitely go to as many of his appointments as you can, no matter what your DH says - it's so easy to forget to ask questions while you're there, and having a second person to help take in information, and ask more questions is a HUGE help.

Take care, and keep us updated on how he's going!
post #28 of 70
Thread Starter 
thanks everyone - you have all helped me make it through the day. I just have to try not to mother hen him too much now!
post #29 of 70
Sending lots vibes for your husband.
post #30 of 70
Sending good thoughts and prayers.
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