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post #31 of 45
I am so sorry to hear this. From your other posts in this thread it sounds as if things haven't been going that great for a while, but breakups are difficult and horrible. I am wishing for you - strength to get yourself through this and to support your kids and keep them strong - and positivity and optimism in the future to find the new opportunites that will open up to you. That may seem impossible and a long way off right now with these big life changes that you are facing, but there is a whole other world out there for you.

post #32 of 45
I'm so incredibly sorry to hear this, sending many prayers to you to get thru this difficult time
post #33 of 45
I am so very sorry sweetie. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. we're here for you!
post #34 of 45
I am really sorry that this has happened to you. You are in my thoughts and heart.
post #35 of 45
I am so sorry that he is leaving you and the kids.I am sending prayers your way.
post #36 of 45
Oh my, how awful..he only thought about it for 2 days and didn't try to work on the marriage? Thats very strange and so sad.

I am really sorry you have to go through this. I am sending many vibes for you and the kids{{{{{{{{{}}}}}}}}}
post #37 of 45
It is always a shock when something like that happens, even though you may half expect it, but we are all here to listen to you and to give advice (doesn't mean you have to take it!) and just to be there, sometimes when you can't say things immediately to friends and family. Do you have a good network of support around you? Or can you go to where there are people you trust and love?
post #38 of 45
I'm so sorry to hear this I hope that somehow everything works out.

post #39 of 45
You and your children are in my thoughts and prayers.
post #40 of 45
I am so sorry! If you need anything at all (maybe just to talk to a stranger-it helps!), just PM me. Many, many Hugs
post #41 of 45
I am so sorry that has happened. I would not let him stay untill you move back or find a new place. If he wants out of the relationship then kick him out. If there has been tension for the last few months/years then it will just get worse untill you leave. I had a girlfriend go through the same thing, they remained living together untill she was able to get a new place and the fights during that time were worse han anyother fight.

You need to move on asap. Staying under the smae roof will not let that happen. Greet him on the front step with a suitcase and say good bye. He has no right to put you or the kids through any more pain.

You are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope you can find the strengh to stand on your own two feet. We all love you here.
post #42 of 45
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Originally Posted by KarmasMom View Post
I am so sorry that has happened. I would not let him stay untill you move back or find a new place. If he wants out of the relationship then kick him out. If there has been tension for the last few months/years then it will just get worse untill you leave. I had a girlfriend go through the same thing, they remained living together untill she was able to get a new place and the fights during that time were worse han anyother fight.

You need to move on asap. Staying under the smae roof will not let that happen. Greet him on the front step with a suitcase and say good bye. He has no right to put you or the kids through any more pain.

You are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope you can find the strengh to stand on your own two feet. We all love you here.
Well said. Sounds like he's trying to gain the upper hand here. Don't let him.
Do what has been said by Karmasmom and you'll find all the strength in you to overcome this and many other feats in life.
He sounds like a mean and controlling man. I wish you nothing but the best in your new life.
post #43 of 45
Thread Starter 
i have to leave because its army quarters we live in.

also we have spoken and he said hes been thinking about this for months now not days. we have started talking again and being civil to each other but we have both decided that its for the best that i go back home and we see how things are but honestly i dont think it would work anyways so im cutting the strings and starting new with the kids

we have both decided that even though there is still love there its best we part on good terms and be friends for the kids.

thank you so much all of you for being there for me and sending me your hugs and support im so glad i found you all

angela
post #44 of 45
still thinking of you - I am pleased that you have been able to talk things through - that does help.
You know we are all here and you can come for a hug or a grumble anytime

Take care
post #45 of 45
Thread Starter 
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Originally Posted by mooficat View Post
still thinking of you - I am pleased that you have been able to talk things through - that does help.
You know we are all here and you can come for a hug or a grumble anytime

Take care
thank you im glad i have friends to chat to and vent all my worries,frustration and anger.

you to all

angela
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