Hi guys, I wonder if anyone could help me with this little problem we seem to be having with Harry. Harry is 5 years old and is my partners son and he is very afraid of police sirens! It's got to the point where even if he hears a police siren outside or in the distance, he'll almost go into panic mode and will ask if the "pigs" are coming to get him! It's worse if we drive past the police station on the corner of my road... he goes nuts and almost spits at them. I absolutely abhore him speaking in that way and I cannot bear the way his mother has allowed him to keep calling police this!
We were driving down to the shop the other day, and a "blood" van (Emergency transfusion van) was right next to us and Harry went nuts! "Why are they following us?" "Are the pigs coming to get me" etc... I do as I usually do and say no... they aren't police, it is the blood van taking blood to a sick or injured person and he knows the police are good people with kind and caring hearts. I also always ask him who told him that calling the Police "Pigs" is ok and who told him they were after him? He never answers me and I'm almost positive that it is his Mother who has taught him such language as well as taught him to fear the Police (lets just say that she's abit on the rough side! Alot rougher than I'll ever be!)
Anyway, Tony and I were talking about it because I've becomed so concerned that this is affecting him so much and we were just out of earshot to Harry, I was saying that I'd like to phone up the police station and ask if it would be ok for me to bring Harry down to the station one day to speak to one of the officers and show him the car - maybe even get a ride in the car... just something to show Harry that Police aren't evil (as he says)... Harry pipes up from the corner "oh chants, I know the police aren't bad, I just hate them pigs!". i almost launched myself at him but stopped myself... it isn't his fault, it's what he's been taught by his scummy mother!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
What can I do to help Harry understand that Police aren't bad people?
We were driving down to the shop the other day, and a "blood" van (Emergency transfusion van) was right next to us and Harry went nuts! "Why are they following us?" "Are the pigs coming to get me" etc... I do as I usually do and say no... they aren't police, it is the blood van taking blood to a sick or injured person and he knows the police are good people with kind and caring hearts. I also always ask him who told him that calling the Police "Pigs" is ok and who told him they were after him? He never answers me and I'm almost positive that it is his Mother who has taught him such language as well as taught him to fear the Police (lets just say that she's abit on the rough side! Alot rougher than I'll ever be!)
Anyway, Tony and I were talking about it because I've becomed so concerned that this is affecting him so much and we were just out of earshot to Harry, I was saying that I'd like to phone up the police station and ask if it would be ok for me to bring Harry down to the station one day to speak to one of the officers and show him the car - maybe even get a ride in the car... just something to show Harry that Police aren't evil (as he says)... Harry pipes up from the corner "oh chants, I know the police aren't bad, I just hate them pigs!". i almost launched myself at him but stopped myself... it isn't his fault, it's what he's been taught by his scummy mother!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
What can I do to help Harry understand that Police aren't bad people?