So today is one of those days that does not pay to get out of bed.
First i get home yesterday morning from work,The wife tells me that she pregnant.
So i stay up really late into the day with her talking about plans and stuff. I know how
excited she is over this. how i like kids, and stuff, I never really wanted to be a father.
I know that alot of that is cause of my father, it was kinda rough growing up with him.
Anyway i come into work today, and have been talking to the wife on yahoo and the phone. It seems she wants to end the marriage. Says she cant take bouncing back and forth from indoensia and america. She never liked living here, far from her family and friends and during the times she is back there, said she cant take being that far from me, as she feels that she is being a bad wife. She would stay here with me during the summer and go back to indo once winter came. Plus she has her own business there to keep a eye on. She also said that she does not the baby being bounced around like that. I also know that she is getting alot of pressure from her family over me. For those that have ever done the interracial thing i am sure you know what mean.
I do understand her feelings, but there is nothign i can do about going back there. I have been kicked out of the country. Thanks to paper work screw ups, which we have been fighting in court. But there is little chance her govt will admit to the mistake.
I also do understand that since i broke my back things have been even harder on her as i am not as active and going all the time like i used to be. She is not the stay at home type. she always was go go go go. so that was just another issue that as been really eatting at her. Not only is she leaving, but i had invested my life savings + more when i moved there setting up a business, and buying my own house. Now for the really bad news, forgin people are not allowed to own things like that there. SO the house(she already had 3 houses of her own before we married) the business all are in her name. She says that she will sale them and put all the money in my bank account there. That not really the point as i dont want to sale them, i would like very much to go back.
So the wife said, we would talk more about once i get home, but i told her since she has already made up her mind about this, i see no need to talk more about it. that she should pack up her stuff, and her 3 cats call a taxi and get out tonight before i get home. I would fedex her what ever else she could not carry out tonight. Since we never did the paper work here in america or indo just in thailand, i guess there is nothing court wise here to do(the house here is all in my name, i payed for it) she has already booked a flight back to indo, was told she did that on sunday.
man i should have stayed in bed,
sorry, for putting this here, i guess for once i needed to write something out,
First i get home yesterday morning from work,The wife tells me that she pregnant.
So i stay up really late into the day with her talking about plans and stuff. I know how
excited she is over this. how i like kids, and stuff, I never really wanted to be a father.
I know that alot of that is cause of my father, it was kinda rough growing up with him.
Anyway i come into work today, and have been talking to the wife on yahoo and the phone. It seems she wants to end the marriage. Says she cant take bouncing back and forth from indoensia and america. She never liked living here, far from her family and friends and during the times she is back there, said she cant take being that far from me, as she feels that she is being a bad wife. She would stay here with me during the summer and go back to indo once winter came. Plus she has her own business there to keep a eye on. She also said that she does not the baby being bounced around like that. I also know that she is getting alot of pressure from her family over me. For those that have ever done the interracial thing i am sure you know what mean.
I do understand her feelings, but there is nothign i can do about going back there. I have been kicked out of the country. Thanks to paper work screw ups, which we have been fighting in court. But there is little chance her govt will admit to the mistake.
I also do understand that since i broke my back things have been even harder on her as i am not as active and going all the time like i used to be. She is not the stay at home type. she always was go go go go. so that was just another issue that as been really eatting at her. Not only is she leaving, but i had invested my life savings + more when i moved there setting up a business, and buying my own house. Now for the really bad news, forgin people are not allowed to own things like that there. SO the house(she already had 3 houses of her own before we married) the business all are in her name. She says that she will sale them and put all the money in my bank account there. That not really the point as i dont want to sale them, i would like very much to go back.
So the wife said, we would talk more about once i get home, but i told her since she has already made up her mind about this, i see no need to talk more about it. that she should pack up her stuff, and her 3 cats call a taxi and get out tonight before i get home. I would fedex her what ever else she could not carry out tonight. Since we never did the paper work here in america or indo just in thailand, i guess there is nothing court wise here to do(the house here is all in my name, i payed for it) she has already booked a flight back to indo, was told she did that on sunday.
man i should have stayed in bed,
sorry, for putting this here, i guess for once i needed to write something out,