Thanks Katie for the links. They are very helpful. Meggie is using her litter box already! One big fear down! I started placing a dish of moistened kitten food in her new bigger box and the little stinker ate it all. She is also lapping water from a dish so it looks like the weaning is off to a great start. I am still giving her a bottle four times a day in addition to the kitten food. She loves to snuggle and nurse wrapped in her bottle blanket as we have named it. When we let her out of her box to play she comes when we call her now. She has replaced the TV as our entertainment. Watching her run around and playing with her toys keeps us in smiles. She has learned to climb onto the couch and now does that so she can snuggle up to us when she gets tired of playing. Our other cat no longer hisses at her but we are still keeping them away from each other until Meggie is bigger.
I can't thank you all enough with all the help and support you have given. She is now a very important part of our home and gives us back as much love if not more than we give her. I can't believe I didn't want to keep her at first. Oh who am I kidding...Of course I was going to keep her from the start. It just took my mind a few days to catch up to my heart.