Can I get some examples..

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Originally Posted by LuckyGirl

Last nights battle: hubby told me he would straighten up around the house since he was not working yesterday (straighten up meaning, take out the trash, p/u the cats toys, clear off the table, maybe clean up after himself) so I said, great I'll make dinner, if you would like to invite your friend over for dinner feel free (beings that he was gonna straighten up). I even gathered up a load of wash and piled it in the hallway before work so all he'd have to do was throw it in.....and he knows what time I come home (4:30, and that I had dinner in the crock pot all day so it would be ready), is he home when I get home? NOPE. Is the house cleaned? NOPE. Is it straightened up even a little bit? NOPE. And then I turn the tv on to listen to my soaps as I'm cleaning up, and the input is changed on the tv. This is what you have to change in order to play video games or watch a dvd
. The kits had shredded tissue paper everywhere (we had allowed them to play with it the night before, and hubby said "don't worry, I'll clean it all up tomorrow, let them play tonight"), he left tons of stuff on the table, he had his friend over during the day and my dirty bras & underwear were piled in the hallway for the world to see!!!!!! And then he didn't come home till 5pm......when I told him that dinner would be ready as soon as I get home!
OH I KNOW how you feel... I'd like to take a sledge hammer to his Xbox 360.. It would be the best day ever!!!
 

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Originally Posted by angelkitty

OH I KNOW how you feel... I'd like to take a sledge hammer to his Xbox 360.. It would be the best day ever!!!
When my ex and I were together, you have no idea how many times I wanted to take the darn controllers with me to work! I thought that *might* have been pushing it a little
 

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Originally Posted by katiemae1277

When my ex and I were together, you have no idea how many times I wanted to take the darn controllers with me to work! I thought that *might* have been pushing it a little
Oh that would be great too!!!!! I have dreams of waking up and smashing the xbox..

When we lived in the apartments,, this couple were in this huge fight,, It was soo loud you could hear it downstairs in our apartment... Well she walked out to the deck, two stories up.. and yelled at the guy.. This xbox game is more important then me,, FINE then.. And she threw it off the deck... IT smashed into little pieces... I laughed soo hard....I was like,, dang I would have to live on the bottom floor.. I want to do that to his xbox....
My husband honestly felt sympathy pains for the guy.. He's like what a crazyy women...
 

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lol, I wouldn't smash it because it's so much money...althought I'd want to!...but I used to get soooo angry about Erik and his PS2. He's grown up and knows there needs to be a limit...but when he gets hooked on a game, watch out! That's fine, I take advantage of doing things I want to do that he never does.
 

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Man, these game consoles lots of problems!!!!! Lucky they bore my hubby and me!
 

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Maybe its because I'm a...
Lucky for me my bf mostly plays games we both like (zelda and...
pokemon
).
My ex was Rude though. Whenever I went to his house he'd rarely walk me to or from the station even though it would often be quite late and he lived about 10mins from the station, through the estate area where he was once robbed with a crowbar, with almost non existant street lighting
He lived in stockwell, near where the guy who was mistaken for a terrorist was shot the day of the london tube bombs.
I can't believe I put up with him as long as I did.
 

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Originally Posted by theimp98

the wife planning a night out shopping(she thinks shopping is a pro sport), with dragging me along when she knows it is raid night in world of warcraft.

Oh the lovely "raid night".

My SO has those like once a week, and I would NEVER EVER EVER think about asking him to go shopping during a raid. In fact, Couple more levels, and I'll be joining his guild along the raids.
(yay!! I just even like to watch them. It's intense)
 

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Oh and on the side of selfish-ness...Ladies, You'd be reading all night.
How about the latest one..
He quit his job yesterday because he doesnt LIKE IT! WHAT?!! You DONT LIKE YOUR JOB!?? To sum up most of his self-ishness, he just really, and I mean REALLY HONESTLY doesnt do anything he doesnt like.
Which includes but not limited to:
-doing the dishes
-Working
-cleaning ANYTHING
-laundry (at all, wont even touch a dirty anything, even to put it in the hamper)
-the litterbox, I dont even think he knows where it is
-doing anything with me lately, because apparently I've been a (bad word), and why would he ever want to go anywhere with a (bad word).
-And he just told me some girl told him he's cute. Great. Awesome!

Oh how I'd love to have a magic wand.
 

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Originally Posted by Crystal211

Same here, I'd pull my hair out if I had to deal with the issues brought up here! We DO yell and have horrible fights, lol, but they are resolved quickly.

And don't worry about the two years...it took Erik SIX!
6? wow, I would have gone insane!! Colin and I had a serious talk about this last month. I told him that I loved him and wanted to spend the rest of my life with him...but that I would not wait for years and years to make up his mind on how he truly felt about me....I will wait for him- I love him...but I will not wait forever for him to "choose me as the 1" you know...I've already chosen him....he's it for me. So hopefully he'll make that decision in a resonable amount of time about me too. I think he will. I know he loves me and he hints at it....so I don't pressure him about it...we only talked about it that once last month. I want it to be his decision...so i'm giving him the time and space to make that choice. I think it's only fair. I would never want to pressure him into a marriage- that is a serious commitment that should not be taken lightly...so i undestand him wanting to take some time to figure it out....but i definitely won't wait 10+years though...I'm ready to start my life and my family
(but i did decide that if he hasn't said anything by our anniversery, I will kindly bring it up again and let him know that I need to know where he sees our future) Who knows! We'll see. I love him, and I really hope he pops the question soon, but my life doesn't depend on it...i'm getting my degree and planning to be self sufficent....but I also want to share my life and future family with him..He is the love of my life...and he definitely adds to the quality and happiness of my life...so hopefully he will want to get married soon
We'll see! In the mean time i'm still waiting for that ring lol...
 

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Originally Posted by lilleah

Oh and on the side of selfish-ness...Ladies, You'd be reading all night.
How about the latest one..
He quit his job yesterday because he doesnt LIKE IT! WHAT?!! You DONT LIKE YOUR JOB!?? To sum up most of his self-ishness, he just really, and I mean REALLY HONESTLY doesnt do anything he doesnt like.
Oh how I'd love to have a magic wand.
Oh boy, that does not sound good at all.
how it is nice to like your job, your not there to like it, your there to make money
to buy toys
ok that was from the the guy in me. The wife would say, save save save save save save. i think she would shoot me if just up and quit.

sometimes to help out we all have to do things we dont like.


Well we raid, wed, thurs from 7 to 10, that it, that is all that i show up for
 

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Originally Posted by StarryEyedTiGeR

6? wow, I would have gone insane!! Colin and I had a serious talk about this last month. I told him that I loved him and wanted to spend the rest of my life with him...but that I would not wait for years and years to make up his mind on how he truly felt about me....I will wait for him- I love him...but I will not wait forever for him to "choose me as the 1" you know...
I talked to my wife for 5 years on the internet, everyday for hours how we both worked.
finally it took telling me that if did come to at least meet her in person she would stop talking to me.
At first i was like yea, so what. then more i thought about it, more i did not like the idea of not talking to her again.

I said it was more easy for her to come to me, but she refused, said i was the male it was my job to come to her first.
that is how i found myself on a plane to indoensia.
 

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Originally Posted by katiemae1277

When my ex and I were together, you have no idea how many times I wanted to take the darn controllers with me to work! I thought that *might* have been pushing it a little
I threw the entire playstation out the window... Controllers and all!!!!!!!

Now that is pushing it a little.... but it worked!
 

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Originally Posted by Pippy-pops

I threw the entire playstation out the window... Controllers and all!!!!!!!

Now that is pushing it a little.... but it worked!
I hid my ex's favorite Xbox game until he was about to buy a new one. In my defense though, he chose to play that game with his friends over spending our first Valentine's day with me.
 

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Originally Posted by Jenny82

I hid my ex's favorite Xbox game until he was about to buy a new one. In my defense though, he chose to play that game with his friends over spending our first Valentine's day with me.
Jenny, that's the exact same reason why I chucked the playstation out the window!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Well done!!!!!
 

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Originally Posted by Jenny82

I hid my ex's favorite Xbox game until he was about to buy a new one. In my defense though, he chose to play that game with his friends over spending our first Valentine's day with me.
To make matters worse... my ex chose to play the playstation with his "girl friend" (girl who was a friend..... at the time) who years later, much to my dismay, admitted that she'd talked him into staying with her instead of with me because she loved the satisfaction it gave her seeing me angry with him and she could therefore be there for him and to reassure him that he was in the right for wanting to carry on playing when I went nuts on him!

I found out many years later that they had an extramarital "thing" just after he and I split (she'd only been married 3 months)and it was all down to her manipulating him into believing I'd been bad for him!

And it gave me even greater pleasure to "bump" into her husband a few years ago and accidentally-on-purpose spill the beans!
 

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Originally Posted by Pippy-pops

I threw the entire playstation out the window... Controllers and all!!!!!!!

Now that is pushing it a little.... but it worked!
You sound like my used to be neighbor!!!

I applaud you for being that brave..
.

HOW I WANT to do that.. But at $400 dollars a pop and $50 a controller and $60 a game.. It would probably cause more issues..


BRAVEEE women!!!!!!!! U ROCK!!!
 

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Originally Posted by lilleah

Oh and on the side of selfish-ness...Ladies, You'd be reading all night.
How about the latest one..
He quit his job yesterday because he doesnt LIKE IT! WHAT?!! You DONT LIKE YOUR JOB!?? To sum up most of his self-ishness, he just really, and I mean REALLY HONESTLY doesnt do anything he doesnt like.
Which includes but not limited to:
-doing the dishes
-Working
-cleaning ANYTHING
-laundry (at all, wont even touch a dirty anything, even to put it in the hamper)
-the litterbox, I dont even think he knows where it is
-doing anything with me lately, because apparently I've been a (bad word), and why would he ever want to go anywhere with a (bad word).
-And he just told me some girl told him he's cute. Great. Awesome!

Oh how I'd love to have a magic wand.
OK, I'm not usually one to get on a relationship without knowing what's really going on, but that's not just being selfish. That's using you to be his mother. You're not his mother, and you deserve to be treated better than that! If he isn't willing to be an equal partner, I'd show him the door...
 
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