Just let her know you are there. Hold her if you can and love on her...then give her the space she wants. Cats are a lot like children...especially in kitten phase. Let her throw her hissy fit. She WILL forgive you. :)
So I have a story to these questions. It's rather sad, I still cry every night because of it.
I moved to NC about 4 months ago. Before moving up here I had a beautiful 1year old cat by the name of Binx. Binx was my baby. I got her 2 days after she was born; her mother had gotten ran-over...