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  1. coni

    Santiago, my best friend, my family, my partner, my teacher, my heart.

    Finding this site has helped me a lot. And I actually keep picturing Sebastian and Santiago chilling were ever they are! They are doing great. And we will be ok too. I think to myself that crying a little every other day is good, and it is honouring them. They were here.  Thank you @GoHolistic...
  2. coni

    Santiago, my best friend, my family, my partner, my teacher, my heart.

    Thank you!  Yes, I have kept myself very busy. I have my dog, Truco, who is the sweetest dog in the world, I love him to bits. And I live with some friends, a couple, they are lovely and have been great. I also have tonds of work. So I am mostly doing ok. I just miss him so much, My...
  3. coni

    Santiago, my best friend, my family, my partner, my teacher, my heart.

    Sixteen days... not getting any easier. I miss him so much. I love you  Santiago, and need you. This sucks so much.
  4. coni

    Sebastian, the feline love of my life

    I am so so verry sorry for your loss, The video was beautiful and your love for each other is evident. He was a beautiful handsome boy! I understand how you feel so deeply. I lost my own "soul cat" my Santiago, only 5 days ago. We were together for 11 years, and he was my life, my heart, my...
  5. coni

    My best friend, my cat, died suddenly in his sleep, no warning... what happend??

    thank you Tobilei... I am on day 5 now. Still hurting and numb at the same time. I am so very sorry for your own loss. I can still feel my Santiago, can't even wash my teeth without thinking of him,
  6. coni

    Santiago, my best friend, my family, my partner, my teacher, my heart.

    Thank you, he deserved the best! We found a beautiful spot in a corner, high ground, as he always loved to sit in the highest corner in the house, were he could see everything. This spot is in a piece of land I recently bought here in Patagonia, and it is in a straight line from the window of...
  7. coni

    Morris - My buddy

    Morris was such a handsome boy!!! I am terribly sorry for your loss. But you gave him and Hurley a beautiful life surrounded by love! You made me smile before, as I also used to joke that if there was re- encarnation I would like to come back as my own Cat. That means we loved them as much as we...
  8. coni

    My Sweet, sweet Hurley

    I also lost my Santiago on May 10, 2016. My heart is broken. I share your pain, Maybe Hurley and Santiago bump into each other crossing the bridge! They were both tuxedo cats, and Santiago was also the most gentle cat of all. Thank you for sharing and thank you for loving him.
  9. coni

    First anniversary

    Dear Di,  I came acrross this post after you or Bob had the kind gesture of commenting my own thread on the passing of my Santiago. I just wanted to say that reading about your love for Crissy makes me happy. Happy to know she was loved to bits, that you care for her just as much as I cared for...
  10. coni

    Santiago, my best friend, my family, my partner, my teacher, my heart.

    Thank you so much for your words, today is a bit better because I know you all know about my Santiago, and you have taken the time to read about him, and look at his pictures, and acknowledge that he was here, he was the most important being in my life, he was half my little family, him and I ...
  11. coni

    Santiago, my best friend, my family, my partner, my teacher, my heart.

    Thank you Betsygee, I loved him so so much. Today is my 2nd full day without him, and it has been so difficult. This site and being able to share with all of you my loss has helped me through the day. I am grateful for his quiet passing but the emptyness he leaves is huge. My boy.
  12. coni

    Santiago, my best friend, my family, my partner, my teacher, my heart.

    wow! That looks just like my Santiago! except for the white chin! Thank you for your words.
  13. coni

    My best friend, my cat, died suddenly in his sleep, no warning... what happend??

    Thank you Lara, I don't think it was FIV as he did not have any signs or symptoms. He was as healthy as he always was, hunting, and eating properly, drinking water... I am now thinking that the most probable cause was either a heart attack or a stroke in his sleep.   
  14. coni

    My best friend, my cat, died suddenly in his sleep, no warning... what happend??

    I know what you mean. I think I will eventually be open to the idea of opening my home to another fluffy thing that needs a home... but as you say, right now all I think of all day is Santiago. Thank you for your lovely words and for taking the time to comfort me. You are very generous and I...
  15. coni

    My best friend, my cat, died suddenly in his sleep, no warning... what happend??

    Thank you! I really hope he felt no pain. I gave him a beautiful funeral and he is now in a beautiful place that will for ever be Santiago's corner. I love him with all my heart.
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  17. coni

    grieving / need to vent

    I am so very sorry for your loss. I lost my Santiago only 3 days ago. 11 years together. And I feel my heart has stopped and my life is frozen, and everyone, except for a few close friends, act like it is not that big a deal, that it is sad, because you or course "love pets". But for me, he was...
  18. coni

    Santiago, my best friend, my family, my partner, my teacher, my heart.

    My best friend passed away on tuesday May 10 , 2016. He was in his bed, curled in his sleep. No warning what so ever. He was a healthy eleven year old cat. He came to me when he was nothing more than a little wet fluffy thing that came from under a bridge in the streets of Santiago, Chile. He...
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