I think you are doing absolutely everything in the world. Your love for her is saintly and has been so for all these years. My cat that is 2 years old has stopped sleeping here because he hates the fact that we got another kitten 4 months ago. He comes to eat every day anfmd night but won't...
I have absolutely nothing useful to say practically to you except my heart hurts so deeply for you and for her and all the pain you are both going through. It's so sad. It's illness and harder without bring able to talk to common language. She's your beautiful light that brought you back...
Hi WaCat
Thanks for your email. I am also kind of new to this site I only wrote before because this issue of my older- 2 year old cat - has been like this for a few months now. Both cats are neutered however my partner bought the kitten from someone and was told she was a girl and when I...
I really appreciate your reply and am sure you are right. I wish the world we lived in were a better place for cats and humans but unfortunately humans make that impossible. We have to strive for a better place. .
I agree the world fashioned by people is a sewer and all living things suffer because of it. I don't love in fantasy I know how crippling cruel humans are. But thanks for the info. All in all I hope my cat will come back to staying here and is being loved as though he eats here he must be...
I don't know if I missed the point. I thought your point was that cats for loads of good reasons shouldn't go outside for danger to themselves. I know the catsite has loads of Americans (and I am American too but live here in England) who think cats shouldn't go out as outdoor cats are always...
I love your comments... Yes he has other things to do. He's a free sentient being.... I need to let him be and come and goes as he pleases. He gets the best care that anyone would want and he is free to come I if he wants to come in. It's been 4 months now since we have the kitten and...
I appreciate your taking the time to reply. I don't know what he gets up to but I doubt that anyone has been cruel to him. Cats never wander very far and no one around here would be cruel to him. They couldn't get near him anyway . The neighbours tell me he sometimes wanders into their...
5 months ago I got a new kitten and my cat of almost 2 wasn't happy. He has never been a loving cat as he was treated badly as a younger cat and therefore we wound up with him. He used to say hello by rubbing up against us and sleeping at home all the time. These are both outdoor cats that...
My cat is home and on the bed with the kitten!! Its raining so I think he will come home when the weather is bad and eventually be here all the time. The kitten is a pain but I think on some level he knows it and leaves when it all gets too much but this is definitely his home still.. Thanks...
Thanks for your thought and the garden/shelter closure idea. I will alwAys feed him and if he wants to live somewhere else and is doing so well I have to let him go....your cat is very very beautiful....