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  1. sharyn

    My poor kitty....

    I think you are doing absolutely everything in the world. Your love for her is saintly and has been so for all these years. My cat that is 2 years old has stopped sleeping here because he hates the fact that we got another kitten 4 months ago. He comes to eat every day anfmd night but won't...
  2. sharyn

    My poor kitty....

  3. sharyn

    My poor kitty....

    I have absolutely nothing useful to say practically to you except my heart hurts so deeply for you and for her and all the pain you are both going through. It's so sad. It's illness and harder without bring able to talk to common language. She's your beautiful light that brought you back...
  4. sharyn

    I think this is an indication of being really angry

    Hi WaCat Thanks for your email. I am also kind of new to this site I only wrote before because this issue of my older- 2 year old cat - has been like this for a few months now. Both cats are neutered however my partner bought the kitten from someone and was told she was a girl and when I...
  5. sharyn

    I think this is an indication of being really angry

    I really appreciate your reply and am sure you are right. I wish the world we lived in were a better place for cats and humans but unfortunately humans make that impossible. We have to strive for a better place. .
  6. sharyn

    I think this is an indication of being really angry

    I agree the world fashioned by people is a sewer and all living things suffer because of it. I don't love in fantasy I know how crippling cruel humans are. But thanks for the info. All in all I hope my cat will come back to staying here and is being loved as though he eats here he must be...
  7. sharyn

    I think this is an indication of being really angry

    I don't know if I missed the point. I thought your point was that cats for loads of good reasons shouldn't go outside for danger to themselves. I know the catsite has loads of Americans (and I am American too but live here in England) who think cats shouldn't go out as outdoor cats are always...
  8. sharyn

    I think this is an indication of being really angry

    I love your comments... Yes he has other things to do. He's a free sentient being.... I need to let him be and come and goes as he pleases. He gets the best care that anyone would want and he is free to come I if he wants to come in. It's been 4 months now since we have the kitten and...
  9. sharyn

    I think this is an indication of being really angry

    I appreciate your taking the time to reply. I don't know what he gets up to but I doubt that anyone has been cruel to him. Cats never wander very far and no one around here would be cruel to him. They couldn't get near him anyway . The neighbours tell me he sometimes wanders into their...
  10. sharyn

    I think this is an indication of being really angry

    This should have said my partner says he will come in when it is cold not warm like I said. Sorry so many typos with this ipad.
  11. sharyn

    I think this is an indication of being really angry

    5 months ago I got a new kitten and my cat of almost 2 wasn't happy. He has never been a loving cat as he was treated badly as a younger cat and therefore we wound up with him. He used to say hello by rubbing up against us and sleeping at home all the time. These are both outdoor cats that...
  12. sharyn

    My cat has kind of left home

    Yes let's hope so. Thank you. You are all so supportive and lovely. Great to have all this cat loving support.
  13. sharyn

    My cat has kind of left home

    I can't seem to figure out how to post a new thread to the public on my mobile/cell phone so I will leave it for now and thanks for the good wishes.
  14. sharyn

    My cat has kind of left home

    My cat is home and on the bed with the kitten!!  Its raining so I think he will come home when the weather is bad and eventually be here all the time.  The kitten is a pain but I think on some level he knows it and leaves when it all gets too much but this is definitely his home still.. Thanks...
  15. sharyn

    My cat has kind of left home

    Thanks for your thought and the garden/shelter closure idea. I will alwAys feed him and if he wants to live somewhere else and is doing so well I have to let him go....your cat is very very beautiful....
  16. sharyn

    My cat has kind of left home

    Thanks so much. You are in the UK so you know the weather has changed a lot this week. Since he comes back every morning and night to eat I think he's not living anywhere else. But I am totally curious as to where they find warmth when it's cold. Last week when it rained he came home and slept...
  17. sharyn

    My cat has kind of left home

    Thanks so much for your time and energy. That's exactly what happens the kitten ambushs him and also the other cats 3 in the garden. I think it's kitten play and of course territorial. He's also newly neutered. I think the enclosure on the garden might be an idea but of course there's all...
  18. sharyn

    My cat has kind of left home

  19. sharyn

    My cat has kind of left home

    Did you get a younger cat too? and the older one feels abandoned...Ah it's so so sad. You can't force cats can you..
  20. sharyn

    My cat has kind of left home

    Hi Thanks so much for responding. Yes the older cat does feel displaced by the younger one. The older cat is a full outdoor cat and trapping him doesn't work. I did try to put him In the bed that we jus created for him just tonight but he wouldn't stay. I am not sure where he is going but...
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