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    Oh, help! Can we fix a bad start?

    OK, here's the post I've been waiting to make. :clap: The Princess returneth. And in pretty good shape for two and a half weeks in the rough. She is indeed a little less round, but healthy. Her fur and teeth look good, her pads are no rougher than usual and she's quite clean, doesn't look...
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    Oh, help! Can we fix a bad start?

    Results already from the sign we posted at the mailboxes - a neighbor uphill called to report having seen an unfamiliar "orange tabby" yesterday. She described a short-haired brightly colored cat who bustled away at the sight of the neighbor. Sounds just like Amber. This means she's less than...
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    Oh, help! Can we fix a bad start?

    Thanks, marg, for the empathy and encouragement. I really do think Amber's around somewhere close, just too freaked out by the violent weather to come home. I used to joke about needing kitty Valium to get her through the thunderstorm season; I wish it had been a real routine, well-established...
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    Oh, help! Can we fix a bad start?

    Time for an update. Duncan arrived just over six months ago. He's all settled in, very alpha cat-like, owns the house and says so. Yesterday, my husband and I stapled up a poster near our rural mailbox stand, with a photo of Amber, asking "Have you seen me? My people miss me. If you know...
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    Oh, help! Can we fix a bad start?

    Yeah, well, as usual when I think we've made an epic leap forward, one of them makes a liar out of me. We were watchng TV last night with Duncan just outside the bedroom, seemingly asleep, the gate across the door. Amber knew he was there, so she was under the bed. Suddenly, Duncan moved...
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    Oh, help! Can we fix a bad start?

    So, we're well into four months now with this project and I think the answer is, "No, we can't fix this, not if the cats don't want it fixed." And these cats don't want to fix anything, thank you very much, stupid human. Nothing to fix, from their perspective. They hate each other, they...
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    Cat marker diffusers

    We adopted our daughter's cat three months ago, a move not popular with the resident kitty. You can read the details, if you're interested, in this forum, a thread titled "Oh, help! Can we fix this bad start?" The root of the problem is that each was an only cat and both want it to stay that...
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    Comfort Zone with Feliway

    I have a 9-year-old neutered female who has been the only cat for six years and is darned pleased about it. She saw no need for the arrival of our daughter's 2-year-old neutered male, a fluffy, furry Maine Coon who was becoming sick in the heat of Hawaii. Daughter is in the Coast Guard and...
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    Oh, help! Can we fix a bad start?

    Thanks for the encouragement, both of you. :wavey: I keep telling myself that some day the Universe will quit raining on my head and the cats will be my biggest problem. :lol2: That's the day I'm impatient for. Then I tell myself to knock off the pity party :bawling:, but I refuse to...
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    Oh, help! Can we fix a bad start?

    Latest installment of Amber vs. Duncan. What a stubborn pair of knotheads these guys are. A spectacular failure of isolation occurred over the past weekend; they connected, and the fur flew. No apparent intent to injure from either one, though, just a noisy tussle which left many handfuls of...
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    Oh, help! Can we fix a bad start?

    Hi, CF4S Thanks for that link. Interesting notion, I might consider it as the next step when they quit hissing and growling under the doors or through the windows separating them. I have a big, sunny room, Amber's favorite, in fact, where she has at least three special places in plain sight...
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    Oh, help! Can we fix a bad start?

    Hell, Crazy4Strays Welcome to the conversation. I hope you find something useful here. Feel free to comment. ~D :rub:
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    Oh, help! Can we fix a bad start?

    Hi, Catapault. Your Valium-laced chicken is just what I would ask for, if I take this to a vet. I'm interested to have precise information to discuss. Thank you. I live southwest of Denver, in the southern shadow of the Mt Evans Wilderness area, near where the Platte River passes the foot of...
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    Oh, help! Can we fix a bad start?

    It has taken the better part of ten years for my brain to recover from the chemical assault of SSRI's, SNRI's, atypical anti-phychotics, antidepressants of every description, mood balancers, benzodiazepines for secondary anxiety, and narcotics for pain relief. All because I can't take Cymbalta...
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    Oh, help! Can we fix a bad start?

    Margd- I don't know if and when I would consider real medication. I'm not rejecting the notion out of hand, but it is definitely a last-resort option. If I were to do it, I would probably go towards treating Amber's obvious anxiety. I have anxiety-related problems myself, related to current...
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