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I wanted to add a few tidbits that could be part of the problem.
1. when I first got him I was home all day (first 8 months)
2. Adam didn't like him at all then, now I know he does he plays with him alot.
3. then I got 2 jobs so I'm not home from 5:30-sometime in the...
Oh I already know that cats don't understand punishment but you can't tell him that... its always his choice to let the dog and cat be in the bedroom at night its not up to me... he totally caters to the dog and i don't have really any say on my cat...
Well it doesn't stop the cat from coming around... he got some spankings last night for waking him up in the middle of the night trying to get in our closets or messing around under the bed... well I didn't hear that I'll I woke up to was d*** cat, and he got spankings
I think i'll give the wet food a try just as a treat... I don't know if he'd go for the smothering with attention he's too busy giving it to the dog... I HATE the work smell thing, I'm a secretary at a marina and smell like I worked on a motor all day when I get home...
Well that seems to be the responce I've been getting everywhere is to switch up his food. I've always supplied the food and cleaned the box. I just really don't understand how he absolutely loved me for the first 8 months and then we moved and he loves my husband at this house. It really...
I actually was just playing with one of those with him, and his ball. also brushed him and gave him a couple treats....and still not laying with me...
I don't know about doing the wet food thing, thats more money, more of a schedule thing, and we also have a pig of a dog that would probably...
not as much as I should I leave the house at 5:30 am and then get home anywhere from 3-6 and am tired.
Just played with him for like 20 mins, gave him some treats, and brushed him.... and is he laying with me now... no in his chair cuz he can't sit with Adam right now
I've had my cat for a little over a year, rescued him from a shelter, he's 2 years old. In the beginning, (first 7 months) he absolutely loved me cuddled with me all the time I was the best thing in the world. My husband was not a cat person in the beginning so the cat had to really try and win...
Dry food all the time. He's a very in shape and playful cat so far so that's how I've been doing it. If he gets fat and sassy some day I'll change that. He always rolls around and acts cute when I fill his food and clean the box.
I really hate it though. He's an awesome cat and doesn't share any of the love with me. The only thing I think that is different is that I work now compared to when I first got him and was doing online classes, so I was home all day. the other thing is I know I stink from my job like grease...
I've had my cat for a little over a year, rescued him from a shelter, he's 2 years old. In the beginning, (first 7 months) he absolutely loved me cuddled with me all the time I was the best thing in the world. My husband was not a cat person in the beginning so the cat had to really try and win...