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    Did I ruin our budding friendship?

    Hi all, just an update. My boy is wanting to stay inside more frequently and he is doing some playing with my other crazy girl 🥳 I do have a question, he doesn’t have much of an appetite, is this common as hormones adjust? I hesitate to say he seems a little depressed, or just not his more...
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    Did I ruin our budding friendship?

    He is home. Doing ok! Vet thought I should confine him to a smaller room. He is in my bathroom, but still trying to find exits. Ready to jump at the mirror kind of thing. Hoping he calms down. My female has been nosey through the door but quite sympathetic. He is very grumpy about it all...
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    Did I ruin our budding friendship?

    Thank you! I’ll do what I can. Wish I did work close, I have over an hour commute. The photo is from this winter, when I thought he was the neighbor’s farm cat, he seemed clean and healthy. I later found out he showed up a few mos prior and was infact staying in the farm’s empty coop, being fed...
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    Did I ruin our budding friendship?

    @tyleete thanks for the kind words! There it’s definitely two schools of thought. It seems to go cold turkey, or to do it gradually. I was surprised he scratched all the window frames in the room since he’s stayed in there overnight a few times before and had never done that, not even close. I...
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    Did I ruin our budding friendship?

    He showed up last night, fully expecting to eat and run back outside to keep musking it up. Honestly, I have never smelled him quite so potent. He had been having a good night apparently. It was a stressful night for him inside. Looking for exits, clawed around the window frames, he may have...
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    Did I ruin our budding friendship?

    I got rid of the Feliway last night and coincidently he was hanging out in the room today! Assuming he shows up tonight so I can take him to vet⏳, I will notify the one other neighbor I know of that originally fed him. As for the neuter, I had been thinking of keeping him inside for at least...
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    Did I ruin our budding friendship?

    Thanks for the reply. I suppose 3 wks isn't long, but prior it had seemed like he was acclimating to being inside more, however it is getting warmer, so there is that. And i do wonder about the Feliway, since it seemed he seemed antsy to leave after I had that running? Coincidentally I am to...
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    Did I ruin our budding friendship?

    Started feeding a confirmed stray a few mos ago. He was showing up when i left and when i got home religiously. Decided to “adopt” him, but wanted to take it slow for him. I put in a cat door that only goes to a small room in my house (i have another cat). He started coming in more frequently...
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