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    Bonding issues?

    hello! I read some similar threads and tried doing what someone suggested there, as well as what you suggested. we've made a point of setting a playtime in the morning and right before bed. after we play before bed, I give her a treat and talk to her in a soothing voice--she seems to enjoy it...
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    Bonding issues?

    I did. They couldn't find a physical reason for her behavior--everything checked out healthy.
  3. bennetts mum

    Bonding issues?

    I have accidentally hurt her a few times--I tried snuggling her and rubbing her sore paw. If she no longer trusts/loves me, what can I do to earn it back? How do I know how to make it okay again? She's the most important thing in my life.
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    Bonding issues?

    My Bennett and I used to be inseparable. she was wherever I was; she climbed into my lap to sleep at night, and cuddled in my arms in the mornings, and she would display all the normal signs that I was her person. Ragdolls are one-person cats, but lately, she can't seem to get far enough away...
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    how can I fix this?

    @SmartyFOJ  she's been eating alot more ravenously than she normally does, and sleeping a lot more. she also hasn't been pooping as often, even though she eats like she's hungry all the time. when we play, she gets tired or just disinterested more quickly than I think she normally did before...
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    how can I fix this?

    a week or two ago, my cat Bennett and I were best friends, and we'd bonded closer than I'd ever expected. she would climb on my lap, make muffins, and lay down, in the morning, she'd come over from the end of the bed, wake me up, and then curl up in my arms, she loved being petted, and she'd pat...
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