Recently, a cat has been greeting me and following me every time I visit my mom. I noticed a week or two ago that she was looking a little chunky, but I played with her and fed her earlier today and her belly is slightly distended, but she hasn't gained noticable weight anywhere else. I want to take her to the vet, and confirm that she's pregnant (and find her a safe place to stay if so), because she doesn't trust me enough to let me look at her tummy, but I'm also not sure whether she's simply an outdoor cat, or a stray. I don't want to steal her. She's not super dirty or mangy, but shes fairly skinny and I see her out and about often and she has a few scars. What's the best thing for me to do? If she's very far along, I wouldn't want her having babies here because there is a lot of traffic and other cats to impregnate them if they're not taken in.