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Now, there is no "normal" and every cat is different, just like every person, dog, animal, is different. But, I thought I'd lay out the little quirks and get your take, mostly Nikita I'm wondering about. Prince was my first ever official cat that I adopted and owned on my own, and Nikita my second; so I always thought "normal" was Prince. Now Nikita acts differently, and I wonder if something's wrong with her or with me, but here's the rub:
Prince is like a dog-cat if ever there was one, we think he's part Siamese actually, but the rescue agency never had that kind of information. Still he follows me around, lays near me on the bed and usually lets me hold him for a little while before deciding he wants to go do his own thing. He'll lay still and let me pet him, plop down on his side in front of the door when I get home so I can love on him a bit. Usually, I have to go to him to pet him, but on occasion he'll come to me. He stopped hopping up on my lap/chest since I brought Nikita home (though also since I started using the couch and not the recliner, he did that more when I used the recliner. Nikita as well)
Nikita is a different story and I'm curious why. I posted a while back about a possible affection issue but she has no trouble being affectionate and sociable, on her own time. Like Prince, she follows me everywhere and meows like she wants attention. She'll let me scratch her cheek and ears for a second or two before walking away. Sometimes, when I reach to pet her, she bends down like she's fixing to crawl under a log or something. She does not like to be held it seems, because unlike Prince, the minute I pick her up and hug her, she starts squirming for the nearest surface she sees. Still she comes to me, and on occasion she will hop up on the bed if I'm sitting there and curl up beside me. Much like Prince, she always seems to want to be nearby, but she doesn't seem to like to be loved on as much unless she's laying down somewhere and then she lets me rub behind her ears and on her cheeks, but if she's on her feet and mobile, she keeps walking when being scratched.
It's kind of frustrating, but at the same time, it just seems like a quirk of hers. Not sure, but when I used to think Prince was aloof and not as sociable, getting Nikita has taught me how wrong I was, because he's very affectionate while she seems more independent. If ever there was "normal" cat behavior, it almost seems like Nikita is the "normal" one.
Prince is like a dog-cat if ever there was one, we think he's part Siamese actually, but the rescue agency never had that kind of information. Still he follows me around, lays near me on the bed and usually lets me hold him for a little while before deciding he wants to go do his own thing. He'll lay still and let me pet him, plop down on his side in front of the door when I get home so I can love on him a bit. Usually, I have to go to him to pet him, but on occasion he'll come to me. He stopped hopping up on my lap/chest since I brought Nikita home (though also since I started using the couch and not the recliner, he did that more when I used the recliner. Nikita as well)
Nikita is a different story and I'm curious why. I posted a while back about a possible affection issue but she has no trouble being affectionate and sociable, on her own time. Like Prince, she follows me everywhere and meows like she wants attention. She'll let me scratch her cheek and ears for a second or two before walking away. Sometimes, when I reach to pet her, she bends down like she's fixing to crawl under a log or something. She does not like to be held it seems, because unlike Prince, the minute I pick her up and hug her, she starts squirming for the nearest surface she sees. Still she comes to me, and on occasion she will hop up on the bed if I'm sitting there and curl up beside me. Much like Prince, she always seems to want to be nearby, but she doesn't seem to like to be loved on as much unless she's laying down somewhere and then she lets me rub behind her ears and on her cheeks, but if she's on her feet and mobile, she keeps walking when being scratched.
It's kind of frustrating, but at the same time, it just seems like a quirk of hers. Not sure, but when I used to think Prince was aloof and not as sociable, getting Nikita has taught me how wrong I was, because he's very affectionate while she seems more independent. If ever there was "normal" cat behavior, it almost seems like Nikita is the "normal" one.