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I have had my cat for almost 9 years now.
I got her when she was 7 weeks old from a listing online from a person's home.
Her and I have been best friends since day 1. She is incredibly affectionate with me. She strongly associates me with trust and security. When she has vet check ups I have to remain close to her and hug her gently to allow the vet to check her. Sometimes the vet will just get me to do certain things. She is very good with me. No bites. No hissing. She's never attacked me. I can ask things of her and she will do it. She is fixed.
The problem has always been others. Anyone who comes through the door she will rub their legs and seem like she is happy to see them but if they walk or touch her she hisses and attacks their ankles. She hisses at people from a distance even if they are just walking by to go to the bathroom or kitchen.
I've been with my boyfriend 10 months and even with this much time passed by she still really dislikes him.
As angry as she gets however I can easily walk over and touch and pet her. Pick her up and have her lick my nose. If she's sitting beside me she does not hiss as much as she does if she's off on her own in the room.
I'm unsure why she seems to hate every other human. She's never been in anyone's prescense without me being home and I watch people like a hawk around my bestie. Despite the fact that she hisses and spits etc.. my concern is always how they are making her feel so I can intervene.
I would like to hear from others who have cats like this and what you do.
Thanks!
I got her when she was 7 weeks old from a listing online from a person's home.
Her and I have been best friends since day 1. She is incredibly affectionate with me. She strongly associates me with trust and security. When she has vet check ups I have to remain close to her and hug her gently to allow the vet to check her. Sometimes the vet will just get me to do certain things. She is very good with me. No bites. No hissing. She's never attacked me. I can ask things of her and she will do it. She is fixed.
The problem has always been others. Anyone who comes through the door she will rub their legs and seem like she is happy to see them but if they walk or touch her she hisses and attacks their ankles. She hisses at people from a distance even if they are just walking by to go to the bathroom or kitchen.
I've been with my boyfriend 10 months and even with this much time passed by she still really dislikes him.
As angry as she gets however I can easily walk over and touch and pet her. Pick her up and have her lick my nose. If she's sitting beside me she does not hiss as much as she does if she's off on her own in the room.
I'm unsure why she seems to hate every other human. She's never been in anyone's prescense without me being home and I watch people like a hawk around my bestie. Despite the fact that she hisses and spits etc.. my concern is always how they are making her feel so I can intervene.
I would like to hear from others who have cats like this and what you do.
Thanks!