My whole life I've had kibble fed female cats, my family was poor and didn't know any better either. In my late teens we adopted our first male cat. He was my baby. He had urinary problems, we didn't realize in time, Petsmart vet (only one available that day) thought he was ok cause he passed a little urine...he wasn't better the next day so we took him to a regular vet but it was too late.
So I haven't had a cat in many years until I adopted my baby girl last year (she wandered into my workplace and leaped into my manager's arms lol). We feed her wet food, but she's weirdly picky (healthy food is a no lol). Then we found a starving kitten on our porch right before Christmas. Of course it's male. So had some emotional moments but adopted him anyway. So now I'm going to go post in the nutrition forum for advice.
So I haven't had a cat in many years until I adopted my baby girl last year (she wandered into my workplace and leaped into my manager's arms lol). We feed her wet food, but she's weirdly picky (healthy food is a no lol). Then we found a starving kitten on our porch right before Christmas. Of course it's male. So had some emotional moments but adopted him anyway. So now I'm going to go post in the nutrition forum for advice.