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KittenKrazy

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Originally Posted by Kiwideus

I just found this thread - my goodness, you have had a hard time.


You are definitely in my thoughts


I have always had the utmost respect for you, because of who you are.
So no judging from me.

How are you doing - I am sorry that I saw this thread late.
I couldn't have said any better......
 

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I would like to thank you for sharing this information with us.

You have faced many battles in your life and have won. Don't forget that.

I think that like others wrote you should sit down with your husband and a third party (counselor) so what is going on with your life,illnesses, medications can be talked about rationally. I think he might be scared of all the changes.

I would write down and prioritize what is important in you life right now and work on that list.

Insurance for instance would be a top concern. I could check out social security or any federal/state/local programs. And don't feel ashamed about utilizing these programs.
Your health should be your main concern.

Then think about another job even if its part time.

Fixing your relationship with your husband. He should be giving you support emotionally at this time. Which I think can be hard for guys to do.

Sending you lots of good thoughts for you during this time in your life.
 
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