I know this title probably makes a lot of people cringe but my vet, despite how wonderful he has been through this process, really doesn't seem to think my PKD kitty is going to last much longer. She came home from being hospitalized for 8 days a week ago and I wasn't told what special diet she would need, what medications, etc. And when i mentioned her appetite wasn't the best, he told me that once she stops eating all together I can start her on an appetite stimulent. However, I really don't want to wait until she gets to the point because by then, in my opinion, she's already suffering too much. I really don't think he initially had a lot of Hope for her, which is why he didn't give me any options. I've been doing a ton of research about support options like supplements and vitamins that can help support kidney function, but for each suggestion he says : well when we get to that point we can try. But as a pet owner, I don't want to sit and wait until she gets so sick she can't eat before I do something to help her. So my question is, at what point should you stop listening to your vet? Obviously I value his opinion and output and will put that before my own research, but he's not really being helpful in the proactive aspect of her health. I know it's only a matter of time, but I want her last few days, weeks, months, whatever it is, to be as happy and pain free as possible. She is doing really well right now, eating and drinking, but not nearly as much as I'd like her to. She ended up losing a lot of weight right before her diagnosis and I really want her to gain a few pounds back. So do I go ahead and start my own health support plan I have come up with? Or do I listen to my vet and just wait until she starts getting really sick again?