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I’ve posted before about my crazy family situation. Because I have had medical issues, which have restricted me in various ways to varying degrees, I have faced a LOT of adversity and nothing in life has gone my way and certainly not the way I would have ever expected. To make matters worse, my mother is EXTREMELY overbearing. She has a very narrow minded way of thinking and is an insufferable know it all who doesn’t know half of what she thinks she does and will hold eveyry mistake you’ve evrr made over you, as proof that she is always right.
I went back to school a while ago as a non traditional stident to finish my degree. I had gotten accepted to a few schools but my mother tormented me into submission to go where she wanted me to go, against my wishes. Now, I have a useless degree and no money to get a different degree from another school.
She had also talked me out of applying to Law School because she was afraid that an issie might come up in the workforce, due my medical problems. So, of course, I lostened to her. What you have to understand is that, if you dosagree with my mother, she takes it as a personal affeont but she is a also a merciless dictator and if she doesn’t get her way, she will harangue and browbeat you into a rage. Because I can’t physically get away from her, I cannot endure the relentless torment. Also, because I have no money, she is able to manipulate me that way.
At the time I was thinking of going to Law School I was healthy enough to do it. Now, I’m having other medical issues and I’m at an age where the financial risk versus reward is probably not faborable. So, for the past year, my father and I have been looking at franchises. My father is going to conteibute some money from a pension or something and make a business loan(not a huge one) for the rest. I don’t know exacrlty how it works but there is some way that things can be set up to protect tour house, in the case of default.
Every time we get close deep into talks with the franchosw reps, and are seeiously considering something, she freaks out and points out all the ways that we might not have enough money and that if the business isn’t immediately auccssful, we’ll lose the house and basically tortures us in the same way she does, whenever we disagree with her.
We are not stupid and would not just rush into anything. We have already turned down SEVERAL.
We are looking at businesses that I could handle, even with my medical issues. There aren’t many of thise to befin with. My mother has completwly tied my hands, between ruining my opportunities with school and now with getting a business. She would rather see me rot away in poverty, with no purpose in lofe. Right now, I literally do nothing all day. It’s inhumane and torturous for me. I don’t have friends or relarives and I can’t afford hobbies.I’ve sold a lot of my possessions to try get a little bit of money but my beother alao screwed me by losing the small inheritance I got, that I could have used toward a franchise. He has not repaid a dime and probably mever will. I feel like a caged animal. I have nowhere to turn and no way out of this unsustainable situation.
I went back to school a while ago as a non traditional stident to finish my degree. I had gotten accepted to a few schools but my mother tormented me into submission to go where she wanted me to go, against my wishes. Now, I have a useless degree and no money to get a different degree from another school.
She had also talked me out of applying to Law School because she was afraid that an issie might come up in the workforce, due my medical problems. So, of course, I lostened to her. What you have to understand is that, if you dosagree with my mother, she takes it as a personal affeont but she is a also a merciless dictator and if she doesn’t get her way, she will harangue and browbeat you into a rage. Because I can’t physically get away from her, I cannot endure the relentless torment. Also, because I have no money, she is able to manipulate me that way.
At the time I was thinking of going to Law School I was healthy enough to do it. Now, I’m having other medical issues and I’m at an age where the financial risk versus reward is probably not faborable. So, for the past year, my father and I have been looking at franchises. My father is going to conteibute some money from a pension or something and make a business loan(not a huge one) for the rest. I don’t know exacrlty how it works but there is some way that things can be set up to protect tour house, in the case of default.
Every time we get close deep into talks with the franchosw reps, and are seeiously considering something, she freaks out and points out all the ways that we might not have enough money and that if the business isn’t immediately auccssful, we’ll lose the house and basically tortures us in the same way she does, whenever we disagree with her.
We are not stupid and would not just rush into anything. We have already turned down SEVERAL.
We are looking at businesses that I could handle, even with my medical issues. There aren’t many of thise to befin with. My mother has completwly tied my hands, between ruining my opportunities with school and now with getting a business. She would rather see me rot away in poverty, with no purpose in lofe. Right now, I literally do nothing all day. It’s inhumane and torturous for me. I don’t have friends or relarives and I can’t afford hobbies.I’ve sold a lot of my possessions to try get a little bit of money but my beother alao screwed me by losing the small inheritance I got, that I could have used toward a franchise. He has not repaid a dime and probably mever will. I feel like a caged animal. I have nowhere to turn and no way out of this unsustainable situation.
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