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Hello everyone! I am basically at my wit's end, to the point that I don't want to even go home anymore.
Around a month ago my mom suddenly sprung a kitten on me. Female, adorable, around 2.5 months old now. I have a resident cat who I raised since she was a kitten, she's 11 y/o now. She has never socialized with another cat (or animal) because we live in an apartment on the 8th floor and she's 100% indoor cat.
Whole kitten thing happened really fast and I didn't know the cat introduction 'protocols' so I let the resident cat Bastet see and smell the new kitten right away. She got very tense and hissed almost immediately. Afterwards I read up about slow introductions, kept them separate, tried to exchange scents. For around 2 weeks resident cat just hid under the bed when she sensed the kitten was close to her room's door, then they had their first fight and after that, she's very upfront about wanting to just attack the kitten. She really didn't react much to the kitten's smell. We did the feeding through the door with SOME hisses but whenever the resident cat sees the kitten (always by accident so far) she gets really aggressive and when the kitten is removed from her field of vision, she attacks me viciously.
I really don't know what to do anymore, we keep them separate all the time, because if the kitten accidentally sneaks into the resident cat's room all hell will break loose. Bastet is really keen on just hunting the kitten down and hurting her. Everyone says to just let them "fight it out", but I can't let a 10 pound cat fight with a tiny kitten.
Is there no hope? What else can I do? I don't even need them to be friendly or co-exist in the same space. I just want to get to a point where opening doors isn't a military operation. That kitten is a tiny ninja. She materializes out of nowhere and I guess the resident cat gets scared and switches to flight or fight mode. I am starting to be a bit scared of her and I hate it.
In terms of territory resident cat's favorite room is my room. Her food is there and the door to the her kitty toilet is also there. She used to leave the room before the kitten when I left the room. Now she's very reluctant to do so. I feel bad because I feel like i'm keeping her prisoner, but even when I accompany her, she runs back to her room right away.
I understand finding a new home for the kitten would be less stress for all of us, but I am able to give a loving life to another tiny companion and I just don't want to give up. This whole journey has been very disheartening.
Around a month ago my mom suddenly sprung a kitten on me. Female, adorable, around 2.5 months old now. I have a resident cat who I raised since she was a kitten, she's 11 y/o now. She has never socialized with another cat (or animal) because we live in an apartment on the 8th floor and she's 100% indoor cat.
Whole kitten thing happened really fast and I didn't know the cat introduction 'protocols' so I let the resident cat Bastet see and smell the new kitten right away. She got very tense and hissed almost immediately. Afterwards I read up about slow introductions, kept them separate, tried to exchange scents. For around 2 weeks resident cat just hid under the bed when she sensed the kitten was close to her room's door, then they had their first fight and after that, she's very upfront about wanting to just attack the kitten. She really didn't react much to the kitten's smell. We did the feeding through the door with SOME hisses but whenever the resident cat sees the kitten (always by accident so far) she gets really aggressive and when the kitten is removed from her field of vision, she attacks me viciously.
I really don't know what to do anymore, we keep them separate all the time, because if the kitten accidentally sneaks into the resident cat's room all hell will break loose. Bastet is really keen on just hunting the kitten down and hurting her. Everyone says to just let them "fight it out", but I can't let a 10 pound cat fight with a tiny kitten.
Is there no hope? What else can I do? I don't even need them to be friendly or co-exist in the same space. I just want to get to a point where opening doors isn't a military operation. That kitten is a tiny ninja. She materializes out of nowhere and I guess the resident cat gets scared and switches to flight or fight mode. I am starting to be a bit scared of her and I hate it.
In terms of territory resident cat's favorite room is my room. Her food is there and the door to the her kitty toilet is also there. She used to leave the room before the kitten when I left the room. Now she's very reluctant to do so. I feel bad because I feel like i'm keeping her prisoner, but even when I accompany her, she runs back to her room right away.
I understand finding a new home for the kitten would be less stress for all of us, but I am able to give a loving life to another tiny companion and I just don't want to give up. This whole journey has been very disheartening.