Hmm where to start....well I guess we will start from the sort of beginning.
When I went off to college my dad offered to pay for everything for me, and being 19 and not knowing much about the world I thought that was the best thing ever...that and I had about 2 cents to my name at the time. Well that has continued for 4 years now and it has put a HUGE strain on our relationship but I just can't find a job and its really frusterating. I had some luck this fall and was working for about two weeks before school pressure made me quit(that and I absolutly hated my job). After that I have applied for at least 30 other jobs and haven't had any luck. So right now my dad is shouldering about 1200 dollars worth of bills monthly + the cost of school 2 times a year(about 10k after everything is said and done). So in one year he is dropping about 24,400 dollars a year on just my bills and other stuff.
To add to the mix he had hernia surgery about a week ago so that was expensive. He spent the night in the hospital about 3 weeks ago with a kidney stone so thats another bill he as. The house just got remodled for about $11,000 and he just got himself a new Lexus which cost him about 30k. And now my mom needs both knees replaced and thats a major thing, there talking about keeping her at a rehab center for about a month per leg(there doing one at a time). So you have the cost of the surgery + rehab center + other medical bills that I am sure will come up and that easily another couple hundred thousand in medical bills.
And I want to go to see my girlfriend in 2 weeks but that trip is going to cost about 5k + gas(I get about 20 miles to the gallon and its about 1200 miles round trip). And of course since I don't have any money and in fact I am about 400 in the hole(had to ask for another loan this morning...he was not happy).
Now I found out that my brother is moving back home because he can't afford his rent. He's 26 so my dad is not pleased that he's moving back home and there going out to dinner to "discuss" it. My mom is the one that invited him thinking that he could help her out if she doesn't go to rehab right away. She is the type of parent that would like her children to stay home until they are 50 so she doesn't mind having him home at all but my dad is the opposite. It was very very stressful the last 2 years me and my brother lived at the house mainly because he was 22 when he finally moved out and that was just way to long for my dad.
So if you could please send vibes and any idea's on how I can quickly get money so I can start paying for my own stuff. I have about 30 applications in all over town and I have even started driving to the neighobring states to try to get jobs(dad doesn't like this idea but money is money). There only about 15 minutes away anyway so its not that big of a commute. Anyway any vibes/advice would be great.
When I went off to college my dad offered to pay for everything for me, and being 19 and not knowing much about the world I thought that was the best thing ever...that and I had about 2 cents to my name at the time. Well that has continued for 4 years now and it has put a HUGE strain on our relationship but I just can't find a job and its really frusterating. I had some luck this fall and was working for about two weeks before school pressure made me quit(that and I absolutly hated my job). After that I have applied for at least 30 other jobs and haven't had any luck. So right now my dad is shouldering about 1200 dollars worth of bills monthly + the cost of school 2 times a year(about 10k after everything is said and done). So in one year he is dropping about 24,400 dollars a year on just my bills and other stuff.
To add to the mix he had hernia surgery about a week ago so that was expensive. He spent the night in the hospital about 3 weeks ago with a kidney stone so thats another bill he as. The house just got remodled for about $11,000 and he just got himself a new Lexus which cost him about 30k. And now my mom needs both knees replaced and thats a major thing, there talking about keeping her at a rehab center for about a month per leg(there doing one at a time). So you have the cost of the surgery + rehab center + other medical bills that I am sure will come up and that easily another couple hundred thousand in medical bills.
And I want to go to see my girlfriend in 2 weeks but that trip is going to cost about 5k + gas(I get about 20 miles to the gallon and its about 1200 miles round trip). And of course since I don't have any money and in fact I am about 400 in the hole(had to ask for another loan this morning...he was not happy).
Now I found out that my brother is moving back home because he can't afford his rent. He's 26 so my dad is not pleased that he's moving back home and there going out to dinner to "discuss" it. My mom is the one that invited him thinking that he could help her out if she doesn't go to rehab right away. She is the type of parent that would like her children to stay home until they are 50 so she doesn't mind having him home at all but my dad is the opposite. It was very very stressful the last 2 years me and my brother lived at the house mainly because he was 22 when he finally moved out and that was just way to long for my dad.
So if you could please send vibes and any idea's on how I can quickly get money so I can start paying for my own stuff. I have about 30 applications in all over town and I have even started driving to the neighobring states to try to get jobs(dad doesn't like this idea but money is money). There only about 15 minutes away anyway so its not that big of a commute. Anyway any vibes/advice would be great.