I got hit on and they laughed at me too…. And it kind of hurts…. And makes me uncomfortable….and makes me die inside, just a little

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Some day in the future there will be a professional man with a family, reflecting on how stupid he was as a teenager, and cringing that he propositioned a woman in a drive through. Here's to hoping you haunt him in his dreams!
Wait, you can do that? *evil laughter*
 

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Do you promise? I’m a lesbian, I’m okay with that
I promise you that after 50, unless you are flashing cash, you are invisible to men.
I wonder if I am invisible to women as well? Come to think of it, women don’t hit on me either.

I was never good looking, but in my 20’s, if my car had a flat, I just stood there for a couple of seconds and there would be plenty of men willing to change it for me or get me a tire if I didn’t have a spare. I have since then learned to change a tire, and now have AAA.

Talking to my brother, when I was in my forties, I told him that I still had good looking young guys hitting on me all the time. He asked me where that happens. I replied “ At the casino” He said, “ Do these young good looking guys work at the casino?” I said “Yes, they are the change guys” My brother said “ And do you tip these guys? Do you give them money?” I thought about it for a moment and the smile left my face as reality set in. Stupid brother.

So, enjoy your youth.

With disgusting guys like the ones mentioned by the OP, they are trying to get a reaction, any reaction. Just ignore it. Or if you want to, act like you don’t understand what they mean. Or like you cant hear them.

But, if you ever feel like you are unsafe or that you are not okay with the interaction, and it sounded like you weren’t, please let someone else deal with them. There isn’t enough money in the world worth that sick feeling you got. Get a manager to deal with it.
 

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Do you promise? I’m a lesbian, I’m okay with that
I myself am a sex repulsed asexual. What those boys did was not ok reguardless of your orientation. You can report them for harassment but honestly I'm not sure that would acomplish anything. Your best bet is to ignore them and walk away.
 
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