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I have posted in the forums before about changes that have happened in my life. My mother passed away on 10-22-16. I am 33 years old, and have made many mistakes. After my mother passed away, i've been everything i could to pick up the pieces and improve my life.
I finally got my drivers license at 32 years old, and a job.
Most days I smile, and laugh, just like i used to. Some days i feel an emptiness in my heart, and i feel myself getting filled with anger, and resentment. Its hard to explain, but there are moments that i feel like myself, i love to laugh, and tease people just to get a reaction. Most days, i feel emotionally old, and tired.
I went from caring my my mother, and my niece (i was her nanny for a few years.) Now i am living in my older sisters house, and trying to help her pick up the pieces after her husband passed away. I have moments that i enjoy life, and then i have moments where im crying in the middle of my job by myself, and on the way home.
I sometimes feel like the friendly, kind, person that i am, is just a mask to make life easier. there are moments i enjoy wearing the mask, and find some enjoyment in life.
i know this thread makes absolutely no sense. but i dont really have many people i can talk to. With my mother gone, i dont think theres anyone else that will ever truly understand me. My sister tries, but she could never take my mothers place. She doesnt understand the way that my mother did. Most days i dont want to get up and go to work. Only the need for money forces me to go, and my promise to my mother.
I feel my life passing me by. I am always there for my family, and my nieces and nephews. But i am afraid i am going to end up alone.
When my mother was here, i had the hope to at least have someone by my side that understood me, even though we fought often, we understood each other best. i always wanted to get married, and have children, but i dont believe that will ever happen for me.
I dedicate so much of my time worrying about everyone else, that i kind of feel like i'm leaving a part of myself behind.
Sorry if this post makes no sense, i just wanted to sit down and write out how i was feeling in a safe space.
I finally got my drivers license at 32 years old, and a job.
Most days I smile, and laugh, just like i used to. Some days i feel an emptiness in my heart, and i feel myself getting filled with anger, and resentment. Its hard to explain, but there are moments that i feel like myself, i love to laugh, and tease people just to get a reaction. Most days, i feel emotionally old, and tired.
I went from caring my my mother, and my niece (i was her nanny for a few years.) Now i am living in my older sisters house, and trying to help her pick up the pieces after her husband passed away. I have moments that i enjoy life, and then i have moments where im crying in the middle of my job by myself, and on the way home.
I sometimes feel like the friendly, kind, person that i am, is just a mask to make life easier. there are moments i enjoy wearing the mask, and find some enjoyment in life.
i know this thread makes absolutely no sense. but i dont really have many people i can talk to. With my mother gone, i dont think theres anyone else that will ever truly understand me. My sister tries, but she could never take my mothers place. She doesnt understand the way that my mother did. Most days i dont want to get up and go to work. Only the need for money forces me to go, and my promise to my mother.
I feel my life passing me by. I am always there for my family, and my nieces and nephews. But i am afraid i am going to end up alone.
When my mother was here, i had the hope to at least have someone by my side that understood me, even though we fought often, we understood each other best. i always wanted to get married, and have children, but i dont believe that will ever happen for me.
I dedicate so much of my time worrying about everyone else, that i kind of feel like i'm leaving a part of myself behind.
Sorry if this post makes no sense, i just wanted to sit down and write out how i was feeling in a safe space.