Hi! Back in February we brought in a real cute feral kitten from outside. I was the one that did the socialising until I could grab and shove her in the crate. She's been spayed since then.
Now for the first month and a half she stayed downstairs in a large cat cage where she saw the TV, the dogs, all family members and the guinea pigs. Since she's so little she's now staying in my sister's room.
The problem is she is terrified of anyone that isn't me or my sister. She likes me more than she likes my sister too.
I've tried havingy mom/dad/brother feed her, wouldn't eat anything they offered no matter how good. Play with her she'll just hide and act scared of the toy. A stranger touching her is 100% a no go, she barely lets me handle her when theres a stranger.
My brother visits her semi frequently (3-4 times a week) and after 15 minutes she might tolerate play but no touching. With my mom and dad it takes longer because they don't visit as often.
My dad did work in her room and spent several hours up there with her, and even after she'd calmed down from the drilling she barely tolerated him. Next day he was a complete stranger
When she goes downstairs to explore it's so much worse. If it's just me with her she's calm but hides when I try to pick her up but she'll quickly go back to exploring. If a stranger comes out she sits under the couch and come hell or high water she won't move.
We've started sticking her in the cage so she spends a couple of hours around everyone. She won't run from anyone in the cage but acts like she's never seen you once out.
I feel really bad that we have this cute kitten that 3/5 of the family can't even touch. Is there anything besides forced exposure and time I can do to get her okay with strangers? Kinda hard to socialize the cat when it already likes you!
Thank you! Here's a pic for getting through all of that
Now for the first month and a half she stayed downstairs in a large cat cage where she saw the TV, the dogs, all family members and the guinea pigs. Since she's so little she's now staying in my sister's room.
The problem is she is terrified of anyone that isn't me or my sister. She likes me more than she likes my sister too.
I've tried havingy mom/dad/brother feed her, wouldn't eat anything they offered no matter how good. Play with her she'll just hide and act scared of the toy. A stranger touching her is 100% a no go, she barely lets me handle her when theres a stranger.
My brother visits her semi frequently (3-4 times a week) and after 15 minutes she might tolerate play but no touching. With my mom and dad it takes longer because they don't visit as often.
My dad did work in her room and spent several hours up there with her, and even after she'd calmed down from the drilling she barely tolerated him. Next day he was a complete stranger
When she goes downstairs to explore it's so much worse. If it's just me with her she's calm but hides when I try to pick her up but she'll quickly go back to exploring. If a stranger comes out she sits under the couch and come hell or high water she won't move.
We've started sticking her in the cage so she spends a couple of hours around everyone. She won't run from anyone in the cage but acts like she's never seen you once out.
I feel really bad that we have this cute kitten that 3/5 of the family can't even touch. Is there anything besides forced exposure and time I can do to get her okay with strangers? Kinda hard to socialize the cat when it already likes you!
Thank you! Here's a pic for getting through all of that