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I’m sure everybody has noticed, especially members of forums, that we have become a society of self-righteous, snarky know-it-alls. At forst it seemed as though bravado and masculinity, which is politically incorrect, of late, has been replaced by an arrogant, mean-spirited aggressive form of wit. However, the sophomoric compulsion to have the last word and zing whatever hapless victim wanders into your territory, be it virtual or otherwise, is not solely the domain of men.
Television glorifies this behavior, which I personally, abhor. To me, being constantly drawn into verbal battles of one upsmanship is not only exhausting but evokes bitter feelings of facing the bully in the classroom. Always being on the defensive in the face of relentless arrogant barrages, engenders a strong visceral response, for which there is no physical release. I know that at times, I feel a great deal of pent up aggression. I don’t understand why, in contemporary society, life has become a competition-survival of the snarkiest- but why is this behavior is condoned? Why is there such a blatant proclivity toward flaunting or attempting to flaunt one’s presumed superiority?
I am not elderly by any means but I did not grow up in the age of the over-indulged, over-coddled era of childrearing. Do people need constant attention and affirmation of how special they are? Sometimes I think that parenting philosphy worked a little too well, much to the detriment of the rest of us.
Television glorifies this behavior, which I personally, abhor. To me, being constantly drawn into verbal battles of one upsmanship is not only exhausting but evokes bitter feelings of facing the bully in the classroom. Always being on the defensive in the face of relentless arrogant barrages, engenders a strong visceral response, for which there is no physical release. I know that at times, I feel a great deal of pent up aggression. I don’t understand why, in contemporary society, life has become a competition-survival of the snarkiest- but why is this behavior is condoned? Why is there such a blatant proclivity toward flaunting or attempting to flaunt one’s presumed superiority?
I am not elderly by any means but I did not grow up in the age of the over-indulged, over-coddled era of childrearing. Do people need constant attention and affirmation of how special they are? Sometimes I think that parenting philosphy worked a little too well, much to the detriment of the rest of us.
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