I have been reading and commenting on things here for almost a month now and I have noticed that some people start a conversation, ask a question, or something like that, participate in a discussion for a few days and then never come back. Is this normal?
For example there was a post by someone who was new about accidentally running over her cat. You can read it here.
Heartbroken And Grieving
People did respond and offered sympathy. I contemplated responding but waited a few days, as experience has taught me to think things through before running my mouth (and fingers). Anyway, after several days I noticed that the writer has never returned, the last time on the site was when she posted the thread. Now, they probably were able to read the comments in the emails that are sent, but that is not the same as participating in a discussion. I have noticed other threads where the original poster has not been around for years but the thread stays active because people keep posting answers (including me). Is this normal here or is it the exception?
I understand there are circumstances that can change things but to just drop out of a conversation to me is kind of like hanging up the phone on someone. Now I understand I am a bit of an exception in this. I have articles on another web site that have a comment section and even though some are now going on 10 years old I still respond to questions that are asked usually within a few days.
Anyway, I just think it would be polite to let people know that something has been resolved so people don't spend time trying to respond to a problem that is no longer a problem. Maybe you need to add a "nevermind" button.
For example there was a post by someone who was new about accidentally running over her cat. You can read it here.
Heartbroken And Grieving
People did respond and offered sympathy. I contemplated responding but waited a few days, as experience has taught me to think things through before running my mouth (and fingers). Anyway, after several days I noticed that the writer has never returned, the last time on the site was when she posted the thread. Now, they probably were able to read the comments in the emails that are sent, but that is not the same as participating in a discussion. I have noticed other threads where the original poster has not been around for years but the thread stays active because people keep posting answers (including me). Is this normal here or is it the exception?
I understand there are circumstances that can change things but to just drop out of a conversation to me is kind of like hanging up the phone on someone. Now I understand I am a bit of an exception in this. I have articles on another web site that have a comment section and even though some are now going on 10 years old I still respond to questions that are asked usually within a few days.
Anyway, I just think it would be polite to let people know that something has been resolved so people don't spend time trying to respond to a problem that is no longer a problem. Maybe you need to add a "nevermind" button.
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