Hey guys,
Dexter has been living with me for one year now (he's one and a half years old).
And the thing is... He gets scared really easily and doesn't seem to trust me that much. I mean yeah we're fine, whenever I'm watching TV he'll jump on the couch and cuddle.
The only thing He'll basically beg for is attention/cuddles. And that's the only interaction he wants from me.
We live in an apartment with a huge patio (but no garden). We also have a dog, a 10-year-old German Sheperd and they get along well (they just don't bother each other).
Lately we've been having problems because the little guy was starting to pee all over our bed and the dog's bed. He was castrated two months ago and things went back to normal. But... Every now and then he goes back to the dog's bed to pee.
And the problem is, I don't know how to get his attention, on anything else than cuddling. He's always up for some cuddling, cuddling is fine even when he sleeps.
But how do I teach him to come when called ? To use the toilets ? To walk on a leash ?
If he could talk he would probably answer: "I don't need those things, just cuddle me and be quiet". I can't get his attention, he doesn't respond to treats.
He seems to respond more to cuddles than anything else. And that's a good thing, I know. But I don't think he trusts me enough to let me do other things with him.
Any advice on how to take our relationship to the next level ?
Dexter has been living with me for one year now (he's one and a half years old).
And the thing is... He gets scared really easily and doesn't seem to trust me that much. I mean yeah we're fine, whenever I'm watching TV he'll jump on the couch and cuddle.
The only thing He'll basically beg for is attention/cuddles. And that's the only interaction he wants from me.
We live in an apartment with a huge patio (but no garden). We also have a dog, a 10-year-old German Sheperd and they get along well (they just don't bother each other).
Lately we've been having problems because the little guy was starting to pee all over our bed and the dog's bed. He was castrated two months ago and things went back to normal. But... Every now and then he goes back to the dog's bed to pee.
And the problem is, I don't know how to get his attention, on anything else than cuddling. He's always up for some cuddling, cuddling is fine even when he sleeps.
But how do I teach him to come when called ? To use the toilets ? To walk on a leash ?
If he could talk he would probably answer: "I don't need those things, just cuddle me and be quiet". I can't get his attention, he doesn't respond to treats.
He seems to respond more to cuddles than anything else. And that's a good thing, I know. But I don't think he trusts me enough to let me do other things with him.
Any advice on how to take our relationship to the next level ?