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I have a two-year-old spayed female tabby. My husband and I wanted to get another cat. We just got an eight-week-old female black cat yesterday. The two-year-old has been with us for a year. She is very sweet but very skittish.
We are going to have the eight-week-old for a few days before she gets fixed then we hope to finalize the adoption. When she was dropped off I set up a room for the kitten, but the kitten ran off. I was scared but, there was no hissing and no fighting. They seemed fine. They kept sniffing each other for about an hour or two. In fact, they fell asleep on the same couch.(By the way, all of this interaction was extremely supervised)
Then I think the two-year-old tried to play. The kitten hissed and they got a little aggressive. So we put the kitten in the kitten room. The two-year-old howled and meowed at the closed door of the kitten room all night. She does this if we ever close the door to the bedroom but she has never cared about the door to this room being closed. She also makes this howling noise if one of us leaves the house.
We feed them treats this morning by the door. My husband said they were both purring really loudly while eating with each other through the door so he decided to try having them in the same room. It did not work out and for the first time, my two-year-old growled. Both hissed at each other.
We don't have them interacting anymore, we are going to have them eat by the door and I am doing scent swapping with toys and brushes. But I am so scared!
Have I made the worst decision for both of these poor little ones? Well they ever recover and be friends? How do I know when I can move to the next step of using a baby gate to do introductions?
I was told that some cats will live together and never get along no matter what, is that true?
Thank you for reading this and for any help given!
We are going to have the eight-week-old for a few days before she gets fixed then we hope to finalize the adoption. When she was dropped off I set up a room for the kitten, but the kitten ran off. I was scared but, there was no hissing and no fighting. They seemed fine. They kept sniffing each other for about an hour or two. In fact, they fell asleep on the same couch.(By the way, all of this interaction was extremely supervised)
Then I think the two-year-old tried to play. The kitten hissed and they got a little aggressive. So we put the kitten in the kitten room. The two-year-old howled and meowed at the closed door of the kitten room all night. She does this if we ever close the door to the bedroom but she has never cared about the door to this room being closed. She also makes this howling noise if one of us leaves the house.
We feed them treats this morning by the door. My husband said they were both purring really loudly while eating with each other through the door so he decided to try having them in the same room. It did not work out and for the first time, my two-year-old growled. Both hissed at each other.
We don't have them interacting anymore, we are going to have them eat by the door and I am doing scent swapping with toys and brushes. But I am so scared!
Have I made the worst decision for both of these poor little ones? Well they ever recover and be friends? How do I know when I can move to the next step of using a baby gate to do introductions?
I was told that some cats will live together and never get along no matter what, is that true?
Thank you for reading this and for any help given!