First time fosters here. Two kittens and a Mom. Have gotten conflicting advice for the past 4 weeks. Much progress on kittens and Mom getting comfortable with us, eating out of our hands, they don't hide anymore, even napping in our laps. But touch has been SLOW. Recently, we've been petting, but nothing more. And they're SO skittish. Have watched loads of Flatbush and Kitten Lady videos. We want to wrap them up and hold them as shown - but no video shows HOW to pick them up. We've tried by the scruff but they squirm out of the way and freak each other out (we've just separated the Mom. She let us pet them, but not pick them up.) Tried again today - and total fail, Now they're freaked out like they've never seen us. We don't want to think that after all this progress we're back to square one. Looking for advice - how to pick them up and should we separate these two potentially bonded sibs. Thanks and help!