My boyfriends cat has always been very independent and will hiss and claw at you if you get too close when he wants left alone or if he is 'over' you petting him and claws all of the furniture in his apartment. His cat is a little over a year old and is very spoiled.
Recently my boyfriend has moved in with me. The hissing/clawing at me doesn't really bother me much, but the clawing at my hardwood throughout my house/furniture does. The one day I caught him and told him 'no' 3xs in a stern voice and the cat responded by hissing at me and running away to hide (I felt soo bad), which was confusing, as I didn't even raise my voice. I am not used to this behavior as my 15 year old cat is well behaved and all I have to do is say no in a stern voice and my cat stops his bad behavior.
Any suggestions on how to curb his clawing items and his response to me correcting him?
Recently my boyfriend has moved in with me. The hissing/clawing at me doesn't really bother me much, but the clawing at my hardwood throughout my house/furniture does. The one day I caught him and told him 'no' 3xs in a stern voice and the cat responded by hissing at me and running away to hide (I felt soo bad), which was confusing, as I didn't even raise my voice. I am not used to this behavior as my 15 year old cat is well behaved and all I have to do is say no in a stern voice and my cat stops his bad behavior.
Any suggestions on how to curb his clawing items and his response to me correcting him?