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We got a new cat about two weeks ago. We currently have a three-year-old neutered male very submissive. We brought a two-year-old female cat home, and from the get go she hasn’t really liked the resident cat.
But we’re doing the Jackson galaxy way of introducing and taking it slow. And they seem fine through the door she doesn’t hiss, she doesn’t growl, she doesn’t do anything like that. So we’ve moved onto letting them see each other and to be next to each other while they are eating treats. That seems to be going OK although she’s kind of a pig and tries eat his treats but he doesn’t care. So after the treats are done she’ll walk around behind them and give the other cat a sniff, like sniff his tail he just kind a looks at her like what are you doing because when we first brought her home She would be aggressive toward him and swat At him and hiss at him.
At this point she still fine she just sniffs him and walks away, But the minute he gets up and walks away from her she’ll chase him and swat at him and hiss at him. Is she being playful or aggressive?
I’ve never had two cats before so this is new to me. I don’t want to have to take her back to the shelter but if she’s not going to get along with the resident cat she’s going to have to go because I can’t have fighting cats.
I also don’t want her to change the personality of the resident cat because he’s very sweet and loving and submissive.
She’s also pretty loving she likes her people but I just I don’t know she might have to be an only cat if she still showing aggression although I know it does take time for them to adjust.
They don’t have to be best friends but I don’t want the resident cat to be frightened of her and you know scared to be in his own house.
I’m not sure what my next step is.
But we’re doing the Jackson galaxy way of introducing and taking it slow. And they seem fine through the door she doesn’t hiss, she doesn’t growl, she doesn’t do anything like that. So we’ve moved onto letting them see each other and to be next to each other while they are eating treats. That seems to be going OK although she’s kind of a pig and tries eat his treats but he doesn’t care. So after the treats are done she’ll walk around behind them and give the other cat a sniff, like sniff his tail he just kind a looks at her like what are you doing because when we first brought her home She would be aggressive toward him and swat At him and hiss at him.
At this point she still fine she just sniffs him and walks away, But the minute he gets up and walks away from her she’ll chase him and swat at him and hiss at him. Is she being playful or aggressive?
I’ve never had two cats before so this is new to me. I don’t want to have to take her back to the shelter but if she’s not going to get along with the resident cat she’s going to have to go because I can’t have fighting cats.
I also don’t want her to change the personality of the resident cat because he’s very sweet and loving and submissive.
She’s also pretty loving she likes her people but I just I don’t know she might have to be an only cat if she still showing aggression although I know it does take time for them to adjust.
They don’t have to be best friends but I don’t want the resident cat to be frightened of her and you know scared to be in his own house.
I’m not sure what my next step is.