post #31 of 40
9/18/06 at 6:21pm
You'd probably find that from his perspective he's just sick of strays coming in and out, and having to keep them, and spending all of this money on them, and so has hoped that threatening to dump one will stop Angelkitty from rescuing any more.
Have you considered going to counselling and finding out if there's an underlying problem as to why he doesn't want another cat? It may be due to something unrelated and he's taking it out on poor little Alex.
I imagine counselling would be a very hard thing to bring up, but if you threaten to leave him because he won't let you keep Alex, then there seems to be problems that maybe need helping anyway.
Good luck, I hope it all works out.
Your DH sounds alot like my DH. He gets so irritated with my cats at times, but hes never threatened to dump them, because if he did I would tell him to not come home too,lol. Im glad you got it worked out for the time being though...........any updates?? Best of luck to ya.