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Thank You for all your advice. I thought it was funny when Lily pee'd in his guitar until he started flipping out. If she had let him catch her I think he would have really hurt her. I always told him he could say anything to me because I love and I would forgive him but the second he even tried to hurt one of my animals I would be gone. I dont think he believed me. He learned though that I was serious I was gone within an hour of him freaking out.Originally Posted by catsknowme
I am praying that your family will be supportive - you are such a good meowmmy, to have left your ex when it was going badly for them (Lily obviously gave him the right message) that you are going to be a great mommy!
As for the ex knowing - that is a tough oneYou certainly don't need him to use this as an excuse to start coming around, wanting to be involved - right now, you need peace and stability to grow that little life inside you. It will be a real challenge to tell your current sweeties, but it could be a good thing, too; hopefully, he will be understanding and if you two are going to be an item, it will be easier for him to be with the baby at the beginning, so it's more of a "father" thing than a "step-father" thing. My oldest daughter was born only a few months before I finally kicked out her biological father - I got involved with my next husband when she was barely 1 year old, and they considered each other "blood father-daughter".
As for cleaning cat boxes, you can use gloves, and your biggest risk for toxoplasmosis is going to be from eating undercooked beef
I told John (BF) last night after I got off the internet. He had been calling all day (he knew I was going to the doctor) but I was to scared to tell him. So I finally told him and I was just soo upset crying and saying how sorry I was. I'm not exactly sure why I was so sorry. Anyways he was really sweet about it and came over and let me cry on his shoulder. He said he's stick around as long as I want him to.