Hi everyone,
I was so excited to find this site. I have taken in, and rehabilitated many, many animals (birds to raccoons). However, they were injured and didn't or couldn't run. The domestic animals I've had all adopted
me (no trust issue) Untill now!
2 months ago, the most beautiful feral male Siamese wandered into my backyard; skinny,skinny so I began to put out food twice a day. For me it was instant love
and I expected a quick reciprocation;he had other ideas. Thats when I learned the difference between stray and feral. At the beginning he wouldn’t eat till I was long gone, however I have slowly moved the dish closer to the house and he is now eating just inside the screen door. I have named him Tuffy (conveys his personality)
To make a 2 month process shorter, he is now coming in the house to explore, he is such a talker and comes to my call, he has a huge fluffy bed he sleeps in all day outside (never leaving my yard). This is all progress, but now my problems..
1. After 2 months and all this progress Tuffy still will not let me touch him; I can put my hand on his food dish and sometimes he’ll eat out of it but try to raise it to pet and I get hisses, growls and even a whack or two (never using claws) He is not fixed, and I want to get that taken care of; as well as getting him shots and inside the house before the rains come. How do I catch a cat I can’t touch without loosing all the trust?
2. I have another female (calico) in the house name: Cali she is queen
very old and rescued as well she hates the new intruder hisses, growls etc.. I have to take he upstairs and close the door when Tuffy explores and then she pouts turning her back on me sometimes hissing at me , will they ever be able to become tolerant of each other? How do I do it? Or will Cali turn her back on me forever!
This rescue seems to be more special and important to me then any before because of the time I’ve invested and the challenge it has presented. So, any advice would be more then appreciated.
My thanks in advance,
Stacie
me (no trust issue) Untill now!
2 months ago, the most beautiful feral male Siamese wandered into my backyard; skinny,skinny so I began to put out food twice a day. For me it was instant love
To make a 2 month process shorter, he is now coming in the house to explore, he is such a talker and comes to my call, he has a huge fluffy bed he sleeps in all day outside (never leaving my yard). This is all progress, but now my problems..
1. After 2 months and all this progress Tuffy still will not let me touch him; I can put my hand on his food dish and sometimes he’ll eat out of it but try to raise it to pet and I get hisses, growls and even a whack or two (never using claws) He is not fixed, and I want to get that taken care of; as well as getting him shots and inside the house before the rains come. How do I catch a cat I can’t touch without loosing all the trust?
2. I have another female (calico) in the house name: Cali she is queen
This rescue seems to be more special and important to me then any before because of the time I’ve invested and the challenge it has presented. So, any advice would be more then appreciated.
My thanks in advance,
Stacie