My husband and I live with my mother because she is in very poor health. She has a two bedroom condo (1600 sq ft) with a loft that my husband and I live in. She has two cats that are old, and we have four (plus the kittens and we are keeping two, at least I thought).
In the past, and one of the reasons we moved in with her, she didn't take care of her cats to the extent that they had to use the rest of the house as the litter box. The carpet is ruined. This weekend, we are cleaning it and I guess that is what prompted the discussion.
Apparently, she and my husband were talking as I was gone taking the kittens to get their vaccinations. They decided they are getting rid of my cat Ziggy and I don't get to keep any kittens, because of money and because Ziggy "terrorizes" her cats (and causes them to urinate outside of their litter box in her room). In actuality, she doesn't take care of her cats, and her litter box doesn't get changed. She has a lot of pride and won't let us help her unless it gets really bad.
I'm in tears right now. I love my Ziggy, and I have bonded so closely with those two kittens... I can't believe they would do this to me. My animals keep me sane.... ugh.
I guess I just want suggestions on what to do. Litter box tips (she has agreed to let us do hers every day), anything. I've told her to keep Ziggy out of her room, but she says she can't because she doesn't have the energy.
In the past, and one of the reasons we moved in with her, she didn't take care of her cats to the extent that they had to use the rest of the house as the litter box. The carpet is ruined. This weekend, we are cleaning it and I guess that is what prompted the discussion.
Apparently, she and my husband were talking as I was gone taking the kittens to get their vaccinations. They decided they are getting rid of my cat Ziggy and I don't get to keep any kittens, because of money and because Ziggy "terrorizes" her cats (and causes them to urinate outside of their litter box in her room). In actuality, she doesn't take care of her cats, and her litter box doesn't get changed. She has a lot of pride and won't let us help her unless it gets really bad.
I'm in tears right now. I love my Ziggy, and I have bonded so closely with those two kittens... I can't believe they would do this to me. My animals keep me sane.... ugh.
I guess I just want suggestions on what to do. Litter box tips (she has agreed to let us do hers every day), anything. I've told her to keep Ziggy out of her room, but she says she can't because she doesn't have the energy.