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Ok, I'm not 100% sure why I am writting this. I guess I just need to write it down to try and figure things out. I'm a very rational person and I NEED to make sense of things, even if we all know that love doesn't really make any sense.
For those of you who remember, I was really upset around 4 months ago because there was some guy in my classes that I really liked... but didn't manage to (or have the courage to) give him my phone number or email before the summer hit. Which meant 4 months without seeing him.
Despite this, I have had a good summer... took summer classes, worked, enjoyed the summer. I certainly didn't spend the whole time moping about not seeing him (except maybe for the first week or so). Still, I haven't stopped thinking about him. I always hoped I would run into him, but never did. I really do miss him and I can't shake off the hope that just maybe he might feel the same way about me.
So now, the 4 months is almost over. In just over a week I'll see him again. I really don't know what to expect or how I will handle it. After 4 months of daydreaming, I think he may have become 'unreal' to me. How will I feel when I am faced with the REAL him. Will I be disappointed? Or so nervous that I will make an idiot of myself?
And how will he act towards me... I mean, I'm sure he'll talk to me (we almost always talked before class) but what if it's just not the same? Or what if I saw things that weren't really there?
In the next week or so, I am on vacation. Which means that there's nothing to keep me busy and I have LOTS of time to daydream. I really don't think it's a good idea for me to fantasize like that over something that probably will never happen. It's like I'm just making myself vulnerable to have my heart broken for no reason. I wish I could just stop building up expectations and take things as they happen. That would be the rational thing to do... but I guess I'm just not as rational as I thought.
I think the best I can do is keep reminding myself that my life is great as it is... and no matter what happens with him, I'll be fine.
But then... why do I miss him so much?
For those of you who remember, I was really upset around 4 months ago because there was some guy in my classes that I really liked... but didn't manage to (or have the courage to) give him my phone number or email before the summer hit. Which meant 4 months without seeing him.
Despite this, I have had a good summer... took summer classes, worked, enjoyed the summer. I certainly didn't spend the whole time moping about not seeing him (except maybe for the first week or so). Still, I haven't stopped thinking about him. I always hoped I would run into him, but never did. I really do miss him and I can't shake off the hope that just maybe he might feel the same way about me.
So now, the 4 months is almost over. In just over a week I'll see him again. I really don't know what to expect or how I will handle it. After 4 months of daydreaming, I think he may have become 'unreal' to me. How will I feel when I am faced with the REAL him. Will I be disappointed? Or so nervous that I will make an idiot of myself?
And how will he act towards me... I mean, I'm sure he'll talk to me (we almost always talked before class) but what if it's just not the same? Or what if I saw things that weren't really there?
In the next week or so, I am on vacation. Which means that there's nothing to keep me busy and I have LOTS of time to daydream. I really don't think it's a good idea for me to fantasize like that over something that probably will never happen. It's like I'm just making myself vulnerable to have my heart broken for no reason. I wish I could just stop building up expectations and take things as they happen. That would be the rational thing to do... but I guess I'm just not as rational as I thought.
I think the best I can do is keep reminding myself that my life is great as it is... and no matter what happens with him, I'll be fine.
But then... why do I miss him so much?