Hello all--
I posted a while back about a little kitty who had followed me home (several blocks) from a walk; I was wondering how I could figure out whether or not he was a stray.
I asked around the neighborhood, and I eventually found out who his owners are. Comforted that he did belong to a loving family, I assumed that the whole thing was over.
Not so simple. I continue to go on walks, and every time I pass close to the kitty's house, he runs out to wherever I am and then follows me wherever I go! I admit that I totally encouraged this at first by petting him, but even when I do my best to steel myself against his entreaties and ignore him, he still follows me for blocks. Last night, I brought him back to his house four times! When I finally got away clean, it was because I did my best to disappear-- but I could hear him crying out until I got too far away.
I certainly don't think he's being abused... but maybe he's starved for attention? Or maybe this is normal behavior and I've just never come across it before. I don't really think there's anything I can do here... what on earth would I say to his owners? Are you sure that you're loving your cat enough? Yeah right. But my heart just goes out to the little guy!
I posted a while back about a little kitty who had followed me home (several blocks) from a walk; I was wondering how I could figure out whether or not he was a stray.
I asked around the neighborhood, and I eventually found out who his owners are. Comforted that he did belong to a loving family, I assumed that the whole thing was over.
Not so simple. I continue to go on walks, and every time I pass close to the kitty's house, he runs out to wherever I am and then follows me wherever I go! I admit that I totally encouraged this at first by petting him, but even when I do my best to steel myself against his entreaties and ignore him, he still follows me for blocks. Last night, I brought him back to his house four times! When I finally got away clean, it was because I did my best to disappear-- but I could hear him crying out until I got too far away.
I certainly don't think he's being abused... but maybe he's starved for attention? Or maybe this is normal behavior and I've just never come across it before. I don't really think there's anything I can do here... what on earth would I say to his owners? Are you sure that you're loving your cat enough? Yeah right. But my heart just goes out to the little guy!