Another failed attempt...lol...

I'm so sorry you are having these problems. I was fortunate because our cats are what brought my husband and me together. He even tried to make friends with Petunia though she hissed at him for about the first 6 years.

Maybe you do need an application form.

Questions like:

Cat hair:
a) is so last season as a fashion statement
b) is a tool used in solving crimes
c) are tiny little reminders of how much my cat loves me.
d) belong only on a lint brush

What a loser! You can definitely do better than that guy. I really hate it when they hide their true personality from you. Ugh, it makes me glad I have found such a great guy. You will too, there really are plenty out there. I got lucky with Ross. I had no pets of my own when we met and now we live together and have two cats (both my choice). He won't clean litterboxes normally (and that's fine since I took on the responsibility), but I know if something happened to me or if I became ill he would pick up the slack. He tries to hide it but I think he loves them just as much as I do. I know they adore him.

Originally Posted by menagerie mama

Today was a bunch of nonsense, he was badgering me to give him the things he left at my house, like I was holding them hostage, and then he IM'd me saying now I can live alone in my hairy filth....seriously, I invite anyone over to see my house. Come ON! Anyone can see (well, animals people can see, anyway) that it's not filthy!!! As a pet sitter, let me tell you, I have been in some filthy houses with less pets than I have!
So I go on myspace today and he left a message that said "thanks for the a$$....Fat chicks are like mopeds. Fun to ride, till your friends see you!"
Now, was that necessary? It stung...but mainly I just laughed it off. What a loser.

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Originally Posted by menagerie mama

Today was a bunch of nonsense, he was badgering me to give him the things he left at my house, like I was holding them hostage, and then he IM'd me saying now I can live alone in my hairy filth....seriously, I invite anyone over to see my house. Come ON! Anyone can see (well, animals people can see, anyway) that it's not filthy!!! As a pet sitter, let me tell you, I have been in some filthy houses with less pets than I have!
So I go on myspace today and he left a message that said "thanks for the a$$....Fat chicks are like mopeds. Fun to ride, till your friends see you!"
Now, was that necessary? It stung...but mainly I just laughed it off. What a loser.

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Yep..I'm p'd off now. He's gots to go.
I thought he was awesome! But he's not now. And I hate him for that. Yeah..Loser is the word. Hey..Shake it off babe..You are way hotter than he is anyways. ( I wanted to tell you that in the beginning, but didnt) Really though..You can do better, he's not cool.
You need some Lilleah-time.
I'm glad you're ridden of him, make sure to get all of his stuff out...Put it on the doorstep if needed, preferebly whilest it's raining.

Originally Posted by lilleah

Yep..I'm p'd off now. He's gots to go.
I thought he was awesome! But he's not now. And I hate him for that. Yeah..Loser is the word. Hey..Shake it off babe..You are way hotter than he is anyways. ( I wanted to tell you that in the beginning, but didnt) Really though..You can do better, he's not cool.
You need some Lilleah-time.

I'm glad you're ridden of him, make sure to get all of his stuff out...Put it on the doorstep if needed, preferebly whilest it's raining.

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I'd pay to see Leah kick his butt!!

Originally Posted by kluchetta

I'd pay to see Leah kick his butt!!

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Girl..I so would. He's not that big.

Originally Posted by lilleah

Girl..I so would.

He's not that big.

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Heh, heh. He would run away crying like a little girl!

Originally Posted by kluchetta

Heh, heh. He would run away crying like a little girl!

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You know it.

Originally Posted by menagerie mama

Today was a bunch of nonsense, he was badgering me to give him the things he left at my house, like I was holding them hostage, and then he IM'd me saying now I can live alone in my hairy filth....seriously, I invite anyone over to see my house. Come ON! Anyone can see (well, animals people can see, anyway) that it's not filthy!!! As a pet sitter, let me tell you, I have been in some filthy houses with less pets than I have!
So I go on myspace today and he left a message that said "thanks for the a$$....Fat chicks are like mopeds. Fun to ride, till your friends see you!"
Now, was that necessary? It stung...but mainly I just laughed it off. What a loser.

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Wow, that's unnecessary - anyone who could write something so vile, intended to be demeaning, obviously has a serious problem with respect. You are well rid of him.

I'm not on myspace, so I don't know, but I'm guessing that he can be booted off myspace for using their service to write that kind of stuff.

Originally Posted by Satai

Wow, that's unnecessary - anyone who could write something so vile, intended to be demeaning, obviously has a serious problem with respect. You are well rid of him.

I'm not on myspace, so I don't know, but I'm guessing that he can be booted off myspace for using their service to write that kind of stuff.

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Eh..Nope. He can't be booted for that. Because it was a private message type thing. Unless he's been reported before, and she reports him now, there's really nothing she can do about that. Myspace is like a big soap opera for everyday people. You can say/do whatever. But I see he's already been taken off her friends list..so that's a plus. It's also a "big" thing to be taken off of someone's friends list, so that's even better that he's gone. He's no good for her.

Originally Posted by lilleah

I'm glad you're ridden of him, make sure to get all of his stuff out...Put it on the doorstep if needed, preferebly whilest it's raining.

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Definitely leave it on the doorstep honey! Oh, and don't forget to sprinkly kitty fur all over it after you brush your furbabies...and a few pieces of kitty litter & some catnip here and there to "accessorize the jerks stuff" lol Also i would leave a little note attached to it with something clever on it....eww, write on a piece of lint roller paper with a sharpie, then roll it in kitty fur and attach the note to his things ! That would rock! Then get a bite of ice cream, and move on! That guy is not worthy of you! You can do way, better

what a idiot!

I agree sprinkle his clothes with already used peed up cat litter and kitty fur

Originally Posted by fwan

what a idiot!

I agree sprinkle his clothes with already used peed up cat litter and kitty fur

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wow what a serious booty-head! at least you found out now what a total looooooser he is, rather than waiting until you were more emotionally involved men! what a freaking waste of space sometimes

Be glad that you found out who he really is this early on and not way down the line after investing years and emotions.

I am glad I found out early, for sure. Leah, I'll pay to see you kick his butt too, but he's really short so you wouldn't have that much trouble. I think he has little man syndrome. Like King Farquad from Shrek. I have a feeling he would have turned violent in time. Funny how it hurts to break up, but then a little while later, you feel better about it and actually I feel a huge relief that he's gone. I wasn't that into him anyway. Actually I had felt like I was settling because I wasn't that attracted to him anyway, but I figured I was being shallow and I would come to like him more in time. I should go with my gut, the last like 6 guys I've dated, I wasn't really attracted to at first but gave them a chance anyway, and they all flopped.
Here's a text conversation we had yesterday. I forgot to put his truck key that I had in his bag of stuff to pick up so he called and told me he was coming to work to get it. After he did, and was totally rude to the girls I work with when he came in, he texted me:
Him: Thanks for having the key ready. I don't like the idea of you having a key to my truck.
Me: Yeah, I might come steal your truck cuz I'm psycho like that.
Him: I don't know, I don't know you. I only know the person you pretended to be. Anyhow, move on. Leave me alone.
Me: No problem
Him: Quit harassing me

What???????
Something isn't right in his head. And I got the myspace message after he told me to quit harassing him. Who is harassing who?

that sounds like something my "friend" did one time: he'll got mad at me for something, told me not to call him anymore, hung up on me, then called me back five minutes later wanting to know why I didn't call him back when he hung up on me HELLO???? sheesh, I only did what you said like i said, men, what a freaking waste of space sometimes!