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post #1 of 15
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Yesterday I had my own personal Pity-Party. And no one showed up but me. Well, my husband showed up, but not till later. I had been majorly PMSing yesterday, combined with the fact that I saw my in-laws and other aquaintances on Sunday, and was just down right sad. I had a case of the boo-hoo's for the entire day. So I took an evening of feeling sorry for myself, and became 1 with the couch. I watched re-run tivo'd episodes of Will & Grace to make me laugh in between crying. Now, I know in the scheme of things, my life is pretty great, and I can see that today, but yesterday.... all I could think of was the 10 different times I had to explain to people that YES we are trying to have a baby, we've been trying for 2 years, NO I don't know exactly what's wrong, and of course we want children. Only to hear them tell me what an excellent mother they think I will be.... just what I need to hear right? nope. And I thought I had myself all pulled together, but those darn emotions kicked in, and I had a good old fashioned Pity-Party for myself. Which included a nice bowl of Breyers Double Churned Light Chocolate ice cream.... mmmmmmm. I am much better today though, but I'm sure it's because I cried it all out of my system & woke up with a reality check.

So I was wondering, do you ever have a Pity-Party for yourself? If/when you do, do you feel better afterwards? Or do you just feel worse? And does anyone else ever come to your Pity-Party? My hubby showed up towards the end of it, and didn't make me change my Will & Grace (he hates that show), and then just held me for a little while....
post #2 of 15
{{{Heather}}} I have had those parties too, especially when I was trying to get pregnant.And most recently with Bella being sick I remember my first husbands Aunt came up to me a few months after I miscarried and said. So you pregnant yet? At a wedding no less! classless!! Sometimes people just don't get it they should just be quiet. I am praying for you, I know how hard this all is.
post #3 of 15
Yes i have pity parites. I just get down sometimes. I am glad you feel better today!
post #4 of 15
I'm sorry you had such a crummy day yesterday. People can be so inconsiderate
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Yup, I had one on Saturday

I was/still am, totally PMSing about everything and anything and I had THE worst cramps a girl could imagine. I too, became one with the couch this weekend and watched nothing, and I mean nothing, but an all day special of Season 2 of Laguna Beach John was getting on my nerves about everything, and I don't really know why. But I did end up taking a much needed nap, and he woke me up with a pint of my favorite chocolate ice cream and a funny movie - so we sat on the couch with the door open listening to the rain and while I got a back and foot rub... and ate my chocolate ice cream. Then, life was good

I hope your feeling better soon - I know how it feels! ;lol2:
post #6 of 15
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Oh, and I forgot to mention, compliments of mother nature, my usually perfect complexion has 2 pimples. And when I say pimple, I mean giant headless red mountain smack dab in the center of my cheek! Who gets a pimple in the center of their cheek??? And there is not enough concealer in the western hemisphere to hide it.... it actually has it's own profile.
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Oh, and I forgot to mention, compliments of mother nature, my usually perfect complexion has 2 pimples. And when I say pimple, I mean giant headless red mountain smack dab in the center of my cheek! Who gets a pimple in the center of their cheek??? And there is not enough concealer in the western hemisphere to hide it.... it actually has it's own profile.

That is hysterical!!!! Keep your sense of humor it can get you through a lot in life!!!!
post #8 of 15
ah bless you, sending you a huge (((((hug))))) i think we all have those days xx
post #9 of 15
Had one on Thursday, I too am trying to get pregnant, had miscarriage last September. I got my period on Thursday and to make matters worse was away from hubby, in Minnesota taking care of my sister and had to pretend like it was no big deal, but inside I was dying. I have appt with fertility dr on aug 22nd hope he will have some good news.
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Had one on Thursday, I too am trying to get pregnant, had miscarriage last September. I got my period on Thursday and to make matters worse was away from hubby, in Minnesota taking care of my sister and had to pretend like it was no big deal, but inside I was dying. I have appt with fertility dr on aug 22nd hope he will have some good news.
Its gonna get better, honey.
post #11 of 15
Oh Heather......I have pity panties all the time.............I think they do a world of good! Glad you feel better today!
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Oh Heather......I have pity panties all the time.............I think they do a world of good! Glad you feel better today!
I can't help it... pity panties!

I do agree- they do do a world of good! Sometimes a good cry is all you need!
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I can't help it... pity panties!

I do agree- they do do a world of good! Sometimes a good cry is all you need!
yeah, well this week I have pity-panties too!
post #14 of 15
I am the Queen of Pity -Parties
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yeah, well this week I have pity-panties too!
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