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post #1 of 22
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My friend decides to introduce me to her cousin. Well I said okay. And I go to meet this boy and he is nothing like what she said. He is not my type, for one thing. For another we go to his sisters house to play cards and they are all sitting out talking on the front porch which is fine I enjoy doing that. Well his sister asks him to run to the store for her and then he gets a half case of beer. And he sits and drinks those 12 beers plus three more from his sister's fridge and none of the rest of us are drinking. Well I can't stand for a guy to get drunk on a first meeting with me. And I was like someone needs to take me home now. Well his friend pulls up and she is all jittery like she is coming down off of crack and he asks her and I spoke up and said no I will not get in a car with her. Well I told him off and then he proceeded to tell me that when he met my brother he gathered that he was using his girlfriend. And boy that just did not go over well. I told him off and told him not to ever contact me again. And he decided to try a pity plea. And I told him off. about that. I hate this being single crap and always having to worry about what scum you meet next. And the bad thing is I was raised with his cousin and none of them act like that. Stupid idiototic man. I am sorry for rambling I just had to get that off my chest.
post #2 of 22
Gotta meet some bad ones before a good one comes along

i wouldnt worry too much about this idiot, the right man is probably right infront of your eyes but you havent noticed it yet!
post #3 of 22
I agree with Fran.

Because you've met guys like him the right one will seem all the better
post #4 of 22
Agreed with all the above.

You have to meet a few toads before you can truely appreciate the princes.

Besides, he'll make a funny story to tell one day.
post #5 of 22
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well he was ugly as dog poo anyway. but I just can't believe my luck lately
post #6 of 22
Men are like toilets all the good ones are taken the rest are full of crap.

he he just kidding thats not true but I've always laughed at that joke
post #7 of 22
Oh well....(15 beers???) a guy sure knows how to make a first impression!!
post #8 of 22
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Originally Posted by GailC View Post
Oh well....(15 beers???) a guy sure knows how to make a first impression!!


Thats a heck of alot of beer for anyone to drink
post #9 of 22
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And then he decides to tell his sister to go to the waffle house and that boy orded two double cheeseburgers and two orders of hashbrowns with ham and cheese in them. No wonder he's a wopping 400lbs atleast and he ain't got no teeth. I think my friend is due a punching in the nose for that set up.
post #10 of 22
ewwwwwww!!!!
post #11 of 22
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and then the idiot heard me saying something about having a cat. and he said well when you move in with me (not sure what give him that idea) he said my cat had to go. and my response was these words I ain't living with no man and the best man in the world would go before she went. and he said well she needs to be declawed and I said I'd be darned and he said he'd do it without the vet fee and I was like yeah you try to so much as touch my cat and I will break your legs. and then I was at his house for a second he said he forgot to turn his coffee pot off and his dog came walking up and looked like he had a broken leg and I am going to try to find his address cause if he doesn't take that dog to the vet I am calling animal control on him. he said well the vet said you can't do anything for it. And I said then get another vet I got mad about that. I am sorry but you don't do your animals that way.
post #12 of 22
He sounds like a real jerk.
post #13 of 22
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Originally Posted by Tavia'smom View Post
And then he decides to tell his sister to go to the waffle house and that boy orded two double cheeseburgers and two orders of hashbrowns with ham and cheese in them. No wonder he's a wopping 400lbs atleast and he ain't got no teeth. I think my friend is due a punching in the nose for that set up.

Tavia what's with your friend doesn't she even know you...it makes you wonder why she would fix you up with this guy!!!
post #14 of 22
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I don't know what her deal is. But I think she said to herself well they are both single so here they are. And I have told her before I am single because I am not going to be with just anybody. And if I have to be with a trashy person to be with someone then I will just be single and footloose and fancy free.
post #15 of 22
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Originally Posted by Tavia'smom View Post
I don't know what her deal is. But I think she said to herself well they are both single so here they are. And I have told her before I am single because I am not going to be with just anybody. And if I have to be with a trashy person to be with someone then I will just be single and footloose and fancy free.
Well, don't hate men for it ... just losers like that one.
Sounds like Tavia is MUCH better company.
post #16 of 22
Here's what always worked for me, and I've had some really exceptional men in my life over the years (I'm 52).

Go on about your life, and find hobbies that interest you and activities that you really enjoy participating in. There has to be something you are passionate about, right? Could be cats, or gardens, or jewelry making, or parachuting- anything. Get involved in a XXX club, or an xxx charity event, or an xxx weekend.
Then while you are having a great time doing the things you love you will naturally meet men who have similar interests.

I never had any luck with fix-ups, or double dates, etc.- I had to go out and find men whose company I enjoyed. There is a world full of stunning, funny, giving, and caring men- scads of them, really. They are just busy doing things that are fun and interesting. If you go and do them too you'll meet someone- really.
post #17 of 22
Not for nothing, but I wouldn't have even wasted my breath arguing with him. And I most likely would've called a cab after the 1st 4 beers....saying thanks, but I'm exhausted have a nice life! There is no sense in rationalizing with an uneducated cat-hating alchoholic, and I would'nt have let my little angels name even come off of his lips!
post #18 of 22
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Originally Posted by Tavia'smom View Post
and then the idiot heard me saying something about having a cat. and he said well when you move in with me (not sure what give him that idea) he said my cat had to go. and my response was these words I ain't living with no man and the best man in the world would go before she went. and he said well she needs to be declawed and I said I'd be darned and he said he'd do it without the vet fee and I was like yeah you try to so much as touch my cat and I will break your legs. and then I was at his house for a second he said he forgot to turn his coffee pot off and his dog came walking up and looked like he had a broken leg and I am going to try to find his address cause if he doesn't take that dog to the vet I am calling animal control on him. he said well the vet said you can't do anything for it. And I said then get another vet I got mad about that. I am sorry but you don't do your animals that way.

Ohh man I would have had to go off on this dude, this is so not even funny, Oh I am so mad right now for the cat and the dog. UGGGGHHHHHH.
post #19 of 22
Thread Starter 
well the idiot hasn't called me so that's good but I am trying to track down his address so I can report him about his dog. the whole situation made me mad. I couldn't call a cab cause we don't have cab services around here. Thanks for the advice and for helping me feel a bit better ladies. hugs to my friends
post #20 of 22
Holy cow, I thought I was a toad! This guy's a real peice of work! (Or a peice of SOMETHING, anyway!) Keep looking, you can do lots better.
post #21 of 22


and one other thing, i have found it, works much better not to let other people set you up for dates,
post #22 of 22
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Originally Posted by fwan View Post
Gotta meet some bad ones before a good one comes along

i wouldnt worry too much about this idiot, the right man is probably right infront of your eyes but you havent noticed it yet!
I agree. There are a ton of "bad men" out there...but there are always good ones too. You just have to look....and sometimes when you resent men the most, is when you're going to stumble across the one who will treat you better than anyone has ever treated you. Keep your chin up And remember, not all men are bad...
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