Yes, I know this is probably a stupid thread title, however, it is something that I am wondering.
Anyhow, about a year ago, or a little less, my fiance and I adopted two ferals. A male and female. Now, after much patience, they are your typical, run of the mill, housecat spoiled brats.
While the female is the attention *****, with both of us, in the house, the male is a bit more inclined to run from me. Oh, I'm a guy. He loves my fiance, he sits in her lap and lets her pet him, but never lets me get too close (unless he's in a nap coma) and if I do, I can pet him until he relizes it's me, then he darts away.
I guess I am wondering, as I have never done anything to hurt or to(not intentionally, anyway, unless dropping a shoe on the floor counts) scare him, are male cats just more wary or fearful of males? Or could it be, since they were captured on the street as kittens, that he had a traumatizing or bad experience with a human male?
Just curious.
Anyhow, about a year ago, or a little less, my fiance and I adopted two ferals. A male and female. Now, after much patience, they are your typical, run of the mill, housecat spoiled brats.
While the female is the attention *****, with both of us, in the house, the male is a bit more inclined to run from me. Oh, I'm a guy. He loves my fiance, he sits in her lap and lets her pet him, but never lets me get too close (unless he's in a nap coma) and if I do, I can pet him until he relizes it's me, then he darts away.
I guess I am wondering, as I have never done anything to hurt or to(not intentionally, anyway, unless dropping a shoe on the floor counts) scare him, are male cats just more wary or fearful of males? Or could it be, since they were captured on the street as kittens, that he had a traumatizing or bad experience with a human male?
Just curious.