I have been stalked for the last two years. All of the suggestions above worked to some extent, but I was unable to get her out of my life.
The biggest reason was that her father worked for the INS and my family was emigrating to the U.S. I was concerned that our personal dramas would affect my family's ability to survive in the new world.
Without such constraints, though......I believe that those suggestions above would work.
One thing I did that finally worked for me (though I would never recommend it to anybody) is to pretend to be psycho and psych the person back. I would never think it would have worked, but it worked for me.
Whatever you do, do it ASAP. Any delays would chew up your soul and spit it out. I mean literally.
The biggest reason was that her father worked for the INS and my family was emigrating to the U.S. I was concerned that our personal dramas would affect my family's ability to survive in the new world.
Without such constraints, though......I believe that those suggestions above would work.
One thing I did that finally worked for me (though I would never recommend it to anybody) is to pretend to be psycho and psych the person back. I would never think it would have worked, but it worked for me.
Whatever you do, do it ASAP. Any delays would chew up your soul and spit it out. I mean literally.