Hi, I'm Heather. I'm new here, but not to pet forums! LOL
This is gonna be long, I haven't had anyone to talk to about my situation.
Anyway, I decided to foster a momma cat and her kittens for my local shelter. Momma was a stray that was brought in with her kittens. When I got them back in May, momma, Savannah, was sweet as pie. She was the nicest cat in the world. She'd sit on my lap and let the kittens nurse there, she'd always purr and do her "happy toes" kneading. I couldn't ask for a sweeter cat. She did have some behavior issues, peeing in clothes baskets or anything that was on the floor (newspaper, empty shoe box, ect.) and even though she loved my big dogs, she beat the crap out of my resident cat.
Things recently started to change in her behavior. 2 of the kittens have been adopted and the other 3 are going to the shelter this week to be adopted. The 3 remaining still try to nurse once in awhile, but she won't let them anymore (they're too big/old now). She screamed and cried for days for me to let her outside. I know, once a stray it's hard to keep them in. I decided to let her out in the yard supervised. Then it turned into an everyday, out all night, kind of thing. As soon as I bring her in, she runs to a door or window to get out. I haven't seen her eat in days. I even tried canned. She's always been skinny, but I thought after she was finished nursing, she'd put on weight. I swear she's getting skinnier. She also seems lathargic. She just lays on the patio for hours. It's hot, so I try to bring her in and she wants back out. She's turned into an avid hunter, I think the count is up to 8 mice and moles, 1 rabbit and 1 bird. She's not eating them, just "presenting" them to me...I put a bell on her collar and the death toll has dropped a little. Also, instead of her beating up my resident cat, Domino, he's beating the crap out of her. They can not be anywhere near each other with out fighting. Domino is fine with the kittens, just not Savannah. (A side note on Domino, he is the most miserable, unaffectionate cat in the world, the only time he purrs is when he's biting you...that's another post though
but I love him).
So I'll get to my questions, maybe someone will know what direction I can go in. I'd love to keep her but with all of these issues, I'm not sure what I can do. I can't turn her back over to the shelter for fear someone will adopt her and not be as understanding as me when she pees in their clean clothes basket. Do you think she's done being a home body because her babies are all grown up? Do you think she's just going back to her roots as a stray? Do you think she just wants some solitude away from her babies who still try to nurse or my mean Domino? Do you think she'll ever get along with my cat? Is it okay to keep her as an outside cat so long as I give her shelter and all the essentials, I mean it's what she wants. And what about her appetite? And her potty issues?
UGGHH
If you've read this far, I thank you!
-Heather
This is gonna be long, I haven't had anyone to talk to about my situation.
Anyway, I decided to foster a momma cat and her kittens for my local shelter. Momma was a stray that was brought in with her kittens. When I got them back in May, momma, Savannah, was sweet as pie. She was the nicest cat in the world. She'd sit on my lap and let the kittens nurse there, she'd always purr and do her "happy toes" kneading. I couldn't ask for a sweeter cat. She did have some behavior issues, peeing in clothes baskets or anything that was on the floor (newspaper, empty shoe box, ect.) and even though she loved my big dogs, she beat the crap out of my resident cat.
Things recently started to change in her behavior. 2 of the kittens have been adopted and the other 3 are going to the shelter this week to be adopted. The 3 remaining still try to nurse once in awhile, but she won't let them anymore (they're too big/old now). She screamed and cried for days for me to let her outside. I know, once a stray it's hard to keep them in. I decided to let her out in the yard supervised. Then it turned into an everyday, out all night, kind of thing. As soon as I bring her in, she runs to a door or window to get out. I haven't seen her eat in days. I even tried canned. She's always been skinny, but I thought after she was finished nursing, she'd put on weight. I swear she's getting skinnier. She also seems lathargic. She just lays on the patio for hours. It's hot, so I try to bring her in and she wants back out. She's turned into an avid hunter, I think the count is up to 8 mice and moles, 1 rabbit and 1 bird. She's not eating them, just "presenting" them to me...I put a bell on her collar and the death toll has dropped a little. Also, instead of her beating up my resident cat, Domino, he's beating the crap out of her. They can not be anywhere near each other with out fighting. Domino is fine with the kittens, just not Savannah. (A side note on Domino, he is the most miserable, unaffectionate cat in the world, the only time he purrs is when he's biting you...that's another post though
So I'll get to my questions, maybe someone will know what direction I can go in. I'd love to keep her but with all of these issues, I'm not sure what I can do. I can't turn her back over to the shelter for fear someone will adopt her and not be as understanding as me when she pees in their clean clothes basket. Do you think she's done being a home body because her babies are all grown up? Do you think she's just going back to her roots as a stray? Do you think she just wants some solitude away from her babies who still try to nurse or my mean Domino? Do you think she'll ever get along with my cat? Is it okay to keep her as an outside cat so long as I give her shelter and all the essentials, I mean it's what she wants. And what about her appetite? And her potty issues?
UGGHH
If you've read this far, I thank you!
-Heather