I am not one to support declawing, however my parents have said that if I do not declaw my kitten (who is about 4 months old) then they will not pay for my rent and bills while I am in college. What should I do?
Good for you! It is hard to start out on your own, but everyone has to do it eventually. When I moved out of my parents house 3 years ago and started paying all of my own bills, I felt so responsible! Good luckOriginally Posted by TexbabyJ
I have been looking into loans and other things and some of my friends who are more self-sufficient are going to help me see what loans i can get if my parents do indeed follow through for once.
i would say dont lie.but you are a adult.Originally Posted by TexbabyJ
then I will lie if that doesn't work
Yay! I was also going to suggest talking to a financial aid counselor at your school about ways to pay for school on your own. Not just because of the immediate kitty issue, but as someone else said, what other kinds of strings are they going to attach to this, and other things? It's hard on your own, but not the end of the world--remember that lots of the students around you have no or very little help from parents for a variety of reasons. If they can do it, you can too.Originally Posted by TexbabyJ
ok wow those pics were bad. thanks for all your support everyone. I will try talking to them more and then I will lie if that doesn't work because y'all are right about this being a control thing. It seems like everytime I turn around my mom is threatening to cut me off because I did something she doesn't like. I have been looking into loans and other things and some of my friends who are more self-sufficient are going to help me see what loans i can get if my parents do indeed follow through for once.